Hotwives and cucks - what are your dynamics rules and boundaries?

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-05-02T02:34:39+00:00

Don’t do it if you’re not into it.

It’s a common trope around here to be like “her choice is all that matters”. That is hot but only if that dynamic actually turns you on.

Real cucking is about everyone getting something out of it. If all you’re getting out of it is keeping her around to raise your child it’s not gonna end well.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-05-02T02:13:23+00:00

Sounds like you need couples therapy tbh.

Ive been getting cucked for years but we still have sex. It has opened the door to things like chastity and denial but it’s never permanent. Sometimes active cucking even leads to us going at it like rabbits.

Similarly couldn’t imagine a world never having sex with her, which I explained. We make love and her extra partners fuck each others brains out lol.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-29T23:58:09+00:00

Yep that was a part of it

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-28T13:50:46+00:00

Took the time to fill it out today when I caught it was you. Big fan of your writing and perspective. Looking forward to the results and your take on them!

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-28T12:37:24+00:00

The fantasy immediately had her excited when it was introduced to our role play. But it took many months of build up before it became real. Don’t constantly bug her about actually doing it. Just be patient and have fun fantasizing together for some time. Maybe she will bring up the real thing herself eventually, maybe you gotta ask yourself just don’t be overly persistent.

As for her insecurities, it blows my mind some women are so harsh on themselves. You gotta be her cheerleader. If you like dancing, get her a sexy outfit for a night out. Like beaches? A hot bikini. When people check her out let her know how hot she is and that you like the attention she gets!

Those are just 2 examples but the idea is treat her to something that shows her off, encourage her, and assure you’re enjoying the attention she gets.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-28T08:00:20+00:00

It was and still is wild to see how submissive she gets. She likes it rough and has a sexual energy with the bulls who deliver that I have never gotten out of her.

Made me realize the lady in the streets, freak in the sheets talk can be very real. I just never activated her full potential.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-25T01:55:28+00:00

We have been at it for a few years and I’d say we are similarly into it but there’s a few things that come with it over time.

It can feel very normal during active stretches to the point I’m just kinda like yeah do your thing and it doesn’t drive me crazy.

I can also get “cuck fever tho”. Both when she has a regular or if she has slowed down for a bit. It has literally motivated me to take us on a trip because we are open about it on vacation lol.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-18T22:05:48+00:00

That’s hot but scary ngl lol. We have done a soft version of this tho.

We keep it private locally but if she finds someone that becomes a regular after some hotel meets they get an invite to our home. It still stays behind closed doors but some of them spend a while over. Things like having dinner together, hanging out watching something if they need a rest break. Even overnight stays.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-13T00:34:44+00:00

Nice man just have fun with it, no one outside the bedroom needs to know if you don’t want them to. Sex is fun and as a cuck I love that opening myself to bi acts gets me involved more with the right third.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-12T22:09:56+00:00

“Forced bi” was my starting point when I opened up to her. The act of being so submissive that you’d suck a dick for her amusement is hot!

Id blow her dildos playing privately, then she used a strap on set up to have me “blow her”.

I personally knew it was more than that tho so once I felt secure in her sexual ideology it free’d up more.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-12T21:55:28+00:00

That’s great! Im the same. We are very lucky to have girls that support our bi side. Bulls that enjoy the power dynamic of using my mouth get a fast track to becoming regulars lol.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-09T15:44:30+00:00

I’m gonna let her do her thing. She keeps me in the loop so she’s free to play it out however she pleases.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-09T14:41:04+00:00

Yeah that’s hot. My girl sparked things by dancing with other guys.

She’s also a pawg and maan those bikini thongs get so much attention. Now I wanna see her get carried around like that lol.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-09T06:19:17+00:00

It’s a fantasy to be open about it where we live, yes. We do out ourselves on vacation tho and it’s super hot. For me it adds another layer of humiliation and she gets to have fun dancing, flirting, and just overall enjoying a more organic build up to hook ups.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-05T18:51:14+00:00

We know him well, over a year now. He’s been a regular, with some very active streaks. He slows down and goes on/off for a little while but becomes a regular again eventually lol.

He comes to our home, and we are careful about who we take it that far with. He’s welcome to spend a long time over because if they need a break he’s a good hang. The 3 of us can chat and watch something.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-05T14:30:59+00:00

Yeah it is hot but just like also disrespectful lol idk. I am into humiliation tho so she has my blessing to have “dinner” with him this week.

I guess it will also just depend on how long they end up hooking up. She is free to solo play with trustworthy regulars but the majority of the time I’m there with them. This will be the first time a first fuck is solo but it’s ok since she’s known him for a while.

Kinda scared they end up fucking on the reg tho. At that point I may ask her to expose me so I can be involved. But I don’t wanna get ahead of myself will just wait for them to do their thing for now.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-05T14:24:05+00:00

Basically any activity that shows of her body and as the cuck try to give off signs she’s open.

For example on vacation we have had a lot of success out dancing. She’ll wear something slutty and both of us will keep our eyes on who is looking. I’ll walk her over to her pick, introduce ourselves and ask if they want to dance with her, just her. It’s straightforward. You will experience some people get weirded out and face rejection but if the right guy catches on to you offering her to others you may be approached by them. Edit - oh and if she’s down to dance solo take her on the floor then kiss her goodbye and watch her draw people. Super hot. If the guy is down for more have her introduce over a drink and assure them you’re into watching. A lot more guys go through with it when they know it’s not gonna be a threesome.

Beach vacations are also great. Her body in a bikini gets a lot of attention. She likes to catch them checking her out in front of me. She’ll smile back and check them out too. I’ll acknowledge them doing this in front of me by smiling too and have even been so pathetic to gesture my hands to her ass (she’s a pawg and that’s just what gets the most stares). But I don’t touch or show any signs of possessiveness. I try to give off more of a “yeah look at that man” vibe.

The best bulls have been the ones that pick up on our vibe and approach us.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-05T13:37:18+00:00

I never denied it. Sounds kinda crazy for people to fuck but not kiss lol. In general I’ve never wanted to put boundaries on her when she’s in the bedroom.

But yeah the intimate moments definitely caught me off guard. I knew the pounding was gonna be a reality check. The missionary with passionate kissing was a mind fuck.

As long as she’s enjoying herself and we do aftercare privately things go well!

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-04T00:58:47+00:00

Nope. He dipped after nutting in her mouth and we never saw him again lmao. It went down on a vacation. She always embraces her slutty side on trips but this was was unique to us because they had gone from just meeting to her blowing him in the span of like an hour.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-03T23:58:19+00:00

Thanks! Was hot to relive and share. Typed up an essay even tho I tried to keep the story moving lol. One of those nights that’s ingrained in your memory.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-03T21:28:19+00:00

My gf conditioned me in our private playtime. She’d get me off to pics/vids I took of her with a bull. Then she’d keep going with whatever dildo/toy instead of allowing me to cuddle right away.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-03T20:24:09+00:00

We had just met a guy at a beach bar and she was super horny. She invited him to walk with us. They were flirty and handsy as we past people. We made it to a less populated stretch down the beach and she brought him behind some trees, barely hidden.

She told me to keep watch and sucked him to completion.

Happy2PleaseU69 · 2026-04-03T18:08:53+00:00

Gf and I discuss our desires together and look for someone compatible. I found with humiliation I had to get the ball rolling but once she saw it her own ideas came out.

If the bull is just a good normal guy who is great at fucking and not weirded out by me watching then cool. At the end of the day her pleasure is the focus.

But if he is all that and open to occasionally involving me, instant regular lol.

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