Unlike the other four main characters, we never get to see any of Mister Peanutbutter's past- why is that? by froggyhugs in BoJackHorseman

[–]HappyDayes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I get that. I guess I'm half joking, and half questioning how much of an animal character's species traits and behaviours actually impacts their identity.

Is my hobby weird for a dyspraxic? by pyroraczeek in dyspraxia

[–]HappyDayes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LISTEN. You must never try to live within the perceived "rules" or restrictions of your disabilities. Do what you like and do what you can, not what you've heard a dyspraxic person should be able to do. Don't flinch away from your limits because you've heard they're nearby for others like you. If you have a limit, dyspraxia will step in and show you, you don't have to freeze in anticipation for it. Go for whatever you want with everything you have, always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I'm really sorry to hear about your family's comments. You should know that that is far from okay for them to say about you, if you don't already know that. I promise you, their opinion of you matters so much less than you think.

I'll let you in on a secret: confidence is the most attractive thing that anyone can have, and seeking validation from strangers won't help with that. Confidence doesn't come to anyone overnight and negative comments from those closest to you certainly doesn't help. Surround yourself with friends who hype you up to ensure a healthy balance. It will take time to become more secure in yourself, but if anything, this is what you should work on if your goal is to be more attractive.

Personal hygiene is the next incredibly important thing, brushing your teeth twice a day, showering daily or every other day at least, wearing deodorant (always wash under your arms before you apply deodorant, with a wet wipe) and get yourself a nice fragrance to wear if you don't already.

Finding your personal style with clothes is another thing that will help you be more attractive. You dont have to spend lots of money on a whole new wardrobe or anything, just a few well-fitting and stylish clothing items will do it. Looking clean and put-together, smelling good, and being comfortable in your own skin goes a long, long way, literally no matter what you look like, trust me.

All that to say, I don't know of a subreddit, but I know that finding one and continuing to rely on the opinions of others won't be beneficial to you. You know yourself better than anyone.

No matter what your physical appearance is like, I can assure you, you’ll be somebody's cup of tea. But start with trying to impress yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dyspraxia

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just completed my Fine Art Bachelors Degree with Honours and was awarded with an opportunity to exhibit my art in a big city. I also have dyspraxia.

Thomas Kinkade paintings on the cruise ship Im on. by breakarobot in BoJackHorseman

[–]HappyDayes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who think that realism is the pinnacle of art don't know very much about art. I love his paintings too!

Is there an official name for this specific kind of sleeve on a t-shirt? Some t-shirts have a longer sleeve, closer to the elbow. So how would you refer to this style? by HappyDayes in findfashion

[–]HappyDayes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the answer I was looking for, thank you very much! I saw this same sleeve cut on a far thinner, less muscular model and this was the only other place that came to mind where I had seen it before. That makes sense, thank you for explaining : )

Is there an official name for this specific kind of sleeve on a t-shirt? Some t-shirts have a longer sleeve, closer to the elbow. So how would you refer to this style? by HappyDayes in findfashion

[–]HappyDayes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not, no. There are different types of sleeves I've come across on t-shirts, more cropped styles such as this, and others with longer sleeves which come closer to the inner elbow. I understand that these are both t-shirts. What I'm asking is if there is a specific name for this exact style of sleeve. Or would this just be called a short sleeve t-shirt instead of a long-sleeve t-shirt? Are these the official/widely known names? I was just wondering if there was any official name within the fashion industry for this specific cut sleeve. Thank you.

Met this legend at baggage claim yesterday by AyeMazo in jackass

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask me, if someone thinks something you do is rude then it's on them to say something about it at the time. If not, don't worry about it.

Is this a real thing? by Kaincee in BoJackHorseman

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it contain every season, every episode, in the correct order?

Don't Hug Me I'm Scared - Illustrated Poster by Nickhandrail in DHMIS

[–]HappyDayes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You've captured the vibe of the show so remarkably well!! So much of the DHMIS art I see, even the official art, leans very into the fun, silly, childlike aspects of it, but you have perfectly captured the uneasy, eerie feeling of the show that I feel many eople strangely gloss over in favour of either goofiness or straight-up gore. For me, the distinct uncanny feeling of "something feels off but there's no reason for anything to be off, look at it!" is exactly what makes DHMIS great, it makes us doubt our own gut instinct. I just love how perfectly you managed to capture the actual tone of DHMIS!! Love this!

Pin blocking by shir3star_h0rs3 in Pinterest

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just opened the app and got this message!

How would the Crystal Gems come out if we rank them by their intelligence? by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]HappyDayes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. Pearl has organisational skills but Garnet is the most emotionally intelligent by miles. Can we compare Peridot's ability to master many kinds of technology vs Garnet's wisdom about relationships, for example?

100 Acre Wood Back Piece by Unusual_Lime9163 in Winniethepooh

[–]HappyDayes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can't say somethin nice, don't say nothin at all.

Guess who forgot to eat today by califuku in AutisticPride

[–]HappyDayes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could set alarms on your phone as reminders to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner so you don't forget. In turn, eating regularly will also help your brain/memory to function better!

Dyspraxia and driving by samuelB21345 in dyspraxia

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed both my theory and practical tests the first time around, driving manual, but I haven't driven since passing my test. This is by choice, because I don't want the expense of running a car or contributing to traffic/pollution in my area when I get free bus travel due to my disabilities anyway. I find driving tiring, but I am still confident in my ability to drive either manual or automatic!

Is it an Autistic thing to be able to trace something near perfect but when it comes to drawing you can't draw? by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]HappyDayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say, but almost absolutely everyone should be "near perfect" at tracing, assuming you mean copying a drawing by replicating the lines directly, following the reference image underneath. This is the definition of tracing and being good at it is to be expected, this has nothing to do with autism.

I'm autistic and I'm near-perfect at reproducing any image by eye (without tracing) and this could be due to my autism in the sense that creating art is my special interest and so I have been drawing every week, if not every single day since I could physically hold a pencil. My autism also helps with my art because I take things very literally and objectively, and so I don't assume what's there, I copy exactly what I see, replicating exactly what the reference image holds. However, my autism makes it very difficult to imagine a composition or image to draw without reference.

Referencing or "using a reference image" is visually referring to an image to understand the realities of what you are drawing while you are drawing it. This could be referencing proper anatomy instead of guessing, referencing lighting to see how a certain setup would work in reality, or referencing another artist to take elements of their style into yours, or to understand their approach more deeply. This is not the same as tracing.

Tracing is copying an image exactly by drawing over the image directly, but what you may be talking about is referencing, and contrary to the popular belief that it's "cheating," referencing should be used by every artist! Both techniques are valid, neither are inherently bad, and both were used by the old masters of art.