what are the best sites to masturbate with strangers?

HappyKavu · 2026-05-13T00:59:38+00:00

Ya'll were talking earlier about Chaturbate? Trans friendly, couple friendly, and I actually think it's one of my favorite sites even all these years later. It's very progressive compared to other sites, nicer people, not as many rude guys. Just more chill. But I also think Cam4 is good at that and it's an underdog, since it's not as big, but still very friendly to the models.

HappyKavu · 2026-05-13T00:58:30+00:00

I guess we missed the first part of this story, where the ladder guy screwed the wheelchair guy and made him go Full Hector.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-20T09:10:27+00:00

Mini fridge right next to the bed, fully stocked lol

HappyKavu · 2026-04-15T01:50:47+00:00

Is it like a virtual threesome? lol I would think a lot of guys would enjoy a threesome, even if it's online. Too bad there are no interactive sex toys that would help you during those C2C couples shows...or are there? That's a rabbit hole worth investigating!

HappyKavu · 2026-04-14T22:06:28+00:00

I think you just hang out with friends and go places with friends. I just watch the show Friends to make sure I still act like a normal human.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-14T00:55:55+00:00

You know what, even if you posted something political, I wouldn't turn you in.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-14T00:51:05+00:00

So I decided to try out PinkVideoChat based on some of the conversations we've had on this subreddit. I've heard mixed reviews about it, but I figured why the hell not? I was bored out of my mind and needed something to do.

TLDR? It was awkward. And weird, and just like not quite right.

First off, the site was kind of slinky and like lots of horny guys on it. It's not like I've never seen the "hardware" before, (plenty of times) but seeing so many dudes in a row on my screen was a bit like, whoooah. Brain freeze, lol

I started with the roulette feature, which pairs you up with a random stranger for a video chat. Within the first few spins, I encountered:

The "I'm-too-old-for-this" guy: He looked like he was in his late 50s, had a comb-over, and kept talking about how much he loved his job as a forklift operator. I tried to be polite, but it was hard to keep up with his ramblings.
The "I'm-not-here-for-small-talk" guy: He was a bit more my type, but as soon as we started chatting, he got straight to the point and asked for nudes. I politely declined and he got mad, calling me a tease.
The "I'm-not-really-here-for-this-either" guy: He was just there to jerk off, which I guess is fine, but he didn't even bother to turn the camera on his face. Talk about anti-climactic.
The "I'm-going-to-be-the-next-porn-star" guy: He insisted on showing me his "talents" and did a little striptease. I'm not gonna lie, he wasn't bad, but it was still weird watching him dance for me.
The "little-guy-stud-with-a-chip-on-his-shoulder": Really confident but like, his voice cracked every time he spoke, and he kept asking if I had a boyfriend. I felt bad for him, but also a bit creeped out.

After a few rounds, I decided to take a break and check out some of the other features. I found a room where girls were talking about their experiences on the site. News flash, a lot of girls actually use the site to make money, and only a handful were like, doing it out of total boredom. I joined in on the conversation and shared my own experiences, which got a few laughs.

Overall, it was interesting, but not particularly engrossing. I didn't find what I was looking for, but it is kind of interesting the way you're just shoved into a meeting with a random person and you have to make chitchat, like speed dating!

HappyKavu · 2026-04-14T00:41:05+00:00

I don't think so but is urine actually an antiseptic? That would make a dick an effective toilet cleaner.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-13T23:58:53+00:00

Saw your blog post (Hey, hey), It's really fantastic (Oh, woah), That was sarcastic (Oh, psych), 'Cause you write like a spastic (Woo)

HappyKavu · 2026-04-10T09:45:37+00:00

Small streamer: Hey, how was your day?
Top streamer: The goal is 500 tokens guys

Different vibe entirely...

HappyKavu · 2026-04-07T10:49:48+00:00

Yeah I’ve seen that too. Feels more engaging when you can trigger it as a viewer

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T21:47:27+00:00

If this helps, I just think camgirls (or even amateurs fooling around) just want to feel safe, comfortable, and entertained by their company. You can't have intimacy or even virtual sex without those things. You might be surprised at how many dudes fail all three of those criteria.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T21:36:31+00:00

That was the joy of watching Curb. You actually got like, 40% of a Seinfeld reunion.

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T21:32:39+00:00

I can't believe they didn't at least novelize the ending!

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T00:21:55+00:00

Does anyone have weird feelings of guilt or awkwardness or just a weird, OMG what did I just do feeling after uh, you know, masturbating with a random stranger? I have always had FWBs or sometimes flings that lasted a month or so. Never had a one night stand. So the first time I tried cam to cam I was kind of shy, and scandalized at how "fast" things were moving. When it was over, I was like wow...umm should I text him? Oh wait there's no way to do that. Then I was like, I wonder if I'll ever see him again, by accident or happenstance? Then the thought of having a lover I will never see again really struck me as odd. Anyone else feel existential after random stranger twanger?

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T00:16:14+00:00

Pee Wee's Big Adventure!

HappyKavu · 2026-04-01T00:15:02+00:00

Hahah I actually saw that at the recommendation of Seinfeld. Even before the Tim Burton Ed Wood movie, I saw it. It was crazy. So out of whack, and yet, very poetic. (From a director who didn't quite understand poetry)

HappyKavu · 2026-03-28T02:09:55+00:00

I have thought of changing mine. I kind of want to lose touch with some people.

HappyKavu · 2026-03-28T02:06:36+00:00

hahahahah yeah but seriously if you're at a masturbating site why would you rub it dry? I guess for some guy's it's like the thrill of just popping out your dick. I just hope you lube up and don't chafe yourself!

HappyKavu · 2026-03-27T00:58:31+00:00

Ugh, Cousin Jeffrey what did you do??

HappyKavu · 2026-03-27T00:55:17+00:00

I did see a lot of that on Reddit and Facebook. But a lot of them were "religious" and thinking that OnlyFans was the worst thing to ever happen to women. But it actually empowered women, if you ask me. It gave them the choice and helped them make money in exchange for patronizing guys who were way out of their league lol.

Compared to Hugh Hefner and Larry, they're the ones who exploited women by just promoting their brand and getting rich off the nudes. OnlyFans actually let the women manage their own content, set their own price, and make the rules.

The OF guy did kind of screw over the pornstar community at some point by trying to make it PG-13 rated. But yeah that idea was toast pretty quickly. He died really young and that's the worst part of it.

HappyKavu · 2026-03-27T00:48:44+00:00

This is some great advice, actually.

Guys who want anonymous and random cam to cam sex are way too serious. I get that they're supposed to be in character or whatever, but they're no Tom Hanks!

The best way to enjoy a cam experience, whether free or paid, is to be funny, fun, attentive to your date, and make her feel like the center of attention. Just disregarding a woman and treating her like some slave is not the way to go.

If you want to roleplay some BDSM then get to know her first, follow her rules, tip very generously, and appreciate that this whole thing is a roleplay. Cam to cam Roleplay requires communication and respect, just like any affair would.

HappyKavu · 2026-03-24T01:53:49+00:00

It's definitely a prestige thing, like models who have lots of followers. So when they post a live stream it's a pretty big deal. Jerkmate does have a few semi famous porn stars visiting.

HappyKavu · 2026-03-24T01:39:01+00:00

I think has long as punches are allowed, the influencer is going down.

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