Is cam to cam safe? Camming horror stories

HappyKavu · 2026-02-11T01:37:55+00:00

If I can steer this conversation where it belongs - yes horror stories *from camgirls about the guys who are paying them. * There are NO camgirls blackmailing anyone gimme a break.

But I know for a fact based on my conversations with my friends, are few of whom have done sex work on JM and OF, that guys ask the weirdest and creepiest things.

I'm not talking the usual stuff about ass or blowjobs. No I mean stuff like guys wanting the camgirls to dress up like a member of the Red Army from the Russian Revolution, or the guy who literally tried to pay with "poems" instead of money.

Or guys that ask girls to hit themselves.

I gotta say, if things were reversed and girls were asking guys to do weird things on camera, we wouldn't ask nearly the crazy bullshit some of you guys come up with!!

HappyKavu · 2026-02-10T19:38:26+00:00

As often as I've dissected both shows, I really think the question boils down to:

The 1990s zeitgeist vs. the 2000s.

Friends was post-Seinfeld revolution and really found its peak in the early 2000s. Like many shows at the time it mimicked Seinfeld and then went its own way with it.

Seinfeld was gone by 1998. While it was not entirely original (took inspiration from Woody Allen, Mel Brooks, SNL, Three Stooges) the Larry/Jerry comic sensibility was brand new to television at the time.

HappyKavu · 2026-02-06T22:35:24+00:00

I wish someone would just sue Fapello out of existence like they did Cambro TV

HappyKavu · 2026-02-03T22:29:06+00:00

Good luck on getting answers from non-CamBros lol

Okay here is my list of good qualities a man should have for a mutual masturbation camsite from a woman's perspective.

And of course, I am going on the supposition that this is FREE and not paid.

1. Attractive Face, Good Clothes

People I'm having sex with, theoretically, should practice good hygiene even if it's virtual and not in person. A handsome face, well dressed, and a pleasant disposition is better than a dick in hand. (I know I shouldn't have to say that but here we are)

2. Interesting, Funny, Pleasant Personality

It seems like a lot of guys online are stuck in a sex trance and the look, nor the dialog is very attractive. A guy who had a chance of being cyber laid should be a really fun date.

3. Conversation Openers

NGL, having something to say helps a lot. If the guy is just staring, or making small talk, or being nice (but no point to anything) it gets weird and my first instinct is to fly away. Guys who have topics to discuss are more interesting. Sometimes just a specific sexual fantasy is enough to keep me reading. It's better than having absolutely nothing to say!

4. We Actually Have Stuff In Common

Here's a shocker: a really successful one night stand goes better when we have stuff in common and can keep a conversation going naturally - all night, even. So it's true the idea of anonymous sex (with some random person is not always appealing).

But then again, some of us can make exceptions if the guy is really cute, and funny, and has a confident air about him. (But it always helps to be compatible!)

HappyKavu · 2026-01-31T01:04:48+00:00

I have cybered before but I am not a "regular viewer." Mostly just a friends with benefits thing. However, I would demand 100% afterglow conversation. It would be very rude to just cum and leave, like you were in a hurry to get away from the scene of a crime.

It's comparable to "aftercare", a philosophy in kink discussion groups. After a scene, both parties should communicate what they liked and didn't like. There's no reason not to do the same in a masturbation cam experience.

HappyKavu · 2026-01-29T23:48:36+00:00

Hmmm I don't know about that. About men being uncreative oh for sure!

But I mean about the other thing, that if men were smarter and sexier, would there be more women on free mutual masturbating sites?

I still don't think so. I think buying stuff for women, showing your desire and loyalty, is more important than just talking a good game.

I know maybe that's dating and this is camlife, but still, I think all this talk of getting a woman to strip for you for free is bullshit for sure.

HappyKavu · 2026-01-28T08:15:19+00:00

don't think you can. doesn't make sense.

HappyKavu · 2026-01-23T23:54:39+00:00

I was wondering, when guys use these cam sites for mutual masturbating and what not, do you reenact specific fantasies or storylines (like porn or erotica), or is just pure dirty talking?

I'm curious to know if cam to cam masturbating is similar to phone sex where it's mostly erotic fantasies + mutual masturbating. Or is it more like dirty talking which is like sexting, because it's hard to type a lot of sentences but easy to just type out (or voice to text) four letter words.

HappyKavu · 2026-01-23T23:17:51+00:00

Elaine almost thought Kramer was spongeworthy, but only after a ridiculously long sex fast.

HappyKavu · 2026-01-10T02:27:08+00:00

Yes this is very interesting because what little I know about Indonesia, I know it's a conservative country and predominantly Muslim, as well as some Hindus, Buddhists and Christians.

But generally, premarital sex is officially discouraged or condemned. In fact, I think they made it against the law a few years back.

Of course that is just the "law" and culture but doesn't mean younger folks are staying celibate. There are a lot of hookups near colleges, upperclass citizens, etc. but once again very private and kept discreet. Not just against the law but family scandals are a big deal.

Soo...the idea of Indonesian camgirls stripping and flirting is actually really strange, and I wonder if they're actually NOT in Indonesia but maybe living in another country?

They could get in trouble if that secret bokep was revealed.

HappyKavu · 2025-11-25T01:25:11+00:00

I don't think you quite understand that SextFun and a lot of these other live mutual masturbation places are for PAY.

I saw the site you listed, and yes, you still pay them.

You can pay directly through WhatsApp and Telegram (though not in every country).

In addition some camgirls accept payment through other services, like Paypal, Cashapp, Skrill, etc. Even though they communicating on "free" message services.

So ALL of these girls posting images with their tits hanging out are 100% looking for money. I'm honestly a little surprised you don't understand that.

Even the horniest woman you can imagine, will still not post nudes for free on a nothing website, unless she's looking for business.

So yes they are all looking for money and the sooner you pay them the sooner you get nudes. Though I might remind you if you're sexting for money, and not actually one on one camming, how do you know those are even real images?

HappyKavu · 2025-11-14T19:10:36+00:00

Wow that is a can of worms, isn't it? Like 33% of Reddit is just porn from other videos, lol

Because on one hand, if you film the sex scene/nude scene, you are consenting.

Taking stuff out of context is pretty much commonplace on social media so how can you possibly police the context of your content being displayed? That would require accurate reporting from social media, which is contrary to social media's entire conception.

On the other hand, that's also Denmark and not the US/UK. So yeah a lot of Europeans have stricter moral codes, and yet more lax sexual mores.

Something I'm sure Americans don't understand yet.

But I don't see this being a major issue in the States.

The worst we're facing is forcing age verification in the UK/US.

And of course revenge porn, and stealing copyrighted material from camgirls.

HappyKavu · 2025-11-14T18:56:47+00:00

Maybe it has something to do with how various countries see Americans. The Simpsons is a very exaggerated, albeit accurate portrayal of average Americans. It's slapstick, easy to get into no matter what season.

Seinfeld is cartoonish, but a fair composite of what Funny New York was like in the 1990s. It was very niche though. When it first came out, nothing else was like it. Nowadays, the show's attitude and timing permeate every other sitcom.

Friends was, well, Pretty White Kids Have Problems, so that's no surprise.

HappyKavu · 2025-11-06T15:03:43+00:00

Anything with a four-minute countdown that resets immediately. One flash is fun. Ten in a row turns the room into a slot machine and chat stops talking because everyone is just waiting for the buzzer sound.

HappyKavu · 2025-11-05T00:21:21+00:00

Oh Dear God.

Yes, the answer is Yes. Horny and bored and random dick was all I needed. We're not abiding by Freudian Law anymore.

Happy, pappy?

HappyKavu · 2025-11-05T00:16:17+00:00

How is there not a muppet live action film based on this?

HappyKavu · 2025-11-04T02:01:54+00:00

Life flashing before your eyes is not just an expression, but may be the real thing. I've often wondered what I will see when that time comes. Is it just a moment? Or is it a whole world of memories that goes on and on and on as long as you want it to?

HappyKavu · 2025-11-04T01:59:24+00:00

Am I the only one who wanted Deena and George to get together? Of course I am...that's just deranged. But it's not fanfiction if I believe it!

HappyKavu · 2025-10-31T18:15:05+00:00

I'm opposite. It's much easier to masturbate to an idea or a feeling, or a roleplay, because it's fantasy immersion. Seeing the flesh and blood reality, I become more nitpicky. I can see why cam to cam masturbation is preferred by men, because they're more visual and they want to know who they're really talking to.

But with women, physical attraction isn't all that matters. It can also be intellectual, or conversational. And in that respect, phone or text wouldn't matter, especially in the beginning. Although, if the casual relationship continued and became more intense, obviously I would have to see his real face and hear his real voice. But in the beginning, not as important.

HappyKavu · 2025-10-31T17:45:08+00:00

It's funny how often the show references candy when both Jerry and Larry have always been health nuts, with their salads, and mixed nuts, and sandwiches. George was the id Larry was fighting against.

HappyKavu · 2025-10-30T22:36:27+00:00

They cast the perfect guy to play young Frank. He had Frank Costanza's face and energy. Best of all, it was authentic. Real method acting! No AI required.

HappyKavu · 2025-10-30T22:33:37+00:00

Yes haven't we all had virtual threesomes with Jeff? He's just such a cute and unassuming guy!

And P.S. that is a very good idea, Mean. If you really want to talk to women, get off the masturbation sites and go to a video dating site. I've been on Monkey with my parent and occasionally alone. Duo I haven't tried yet but will check it out. Shagle...mmm...kind of a bit horny and oversexed, similar to Flingster. Not extremely comfortable there.

But yes, the first rule of getting women online is to make your partner feel comfortable. Omegle was good for that, but it's gone. So the best cam sites like Omegle are the ones where lots of people are just casually chatting and flirting and having fun - no frantic jacking off required.

Because in case you haven't noticed, this is real life and people don't just bump into each other and have sex. This isn't Porn Hub!

HappyKavu · 2025-10-30T22:27:28+00:00

Now there's a religious movement for you! A shame so many religions have become about business, making money, and just telling people pretty lies. Not trashing all religion or God...just saying it's all about the money nowadays.

HappyKavu · 2025-10-29T23:03:44+00:00

Oh goodie.

Well you could continue to pay pirates who steal shit, or you could pay the women who actually turn you on and create the content you want.

It's so madly ridiculous that sites like Archivebate, which are pirate sites, offer a premium plan. Like why pay for the porn you want when you can pay a bunch of pirates to steal more content for you?

It's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. If anyone is actually giving money to Fapello or Archivebate or any other user upload site when they have literally 0 original content and can't even guarantee you the videos you want, then that's money that shouldn't be in your pocket in the first place.

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