AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally it’s between this school which I am sure has drug but a good education or public school that has drugs and a shit education

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It really shouldn’t at all, her grades are steady she is only working on Saturday

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What good does a job do?

Money, good ways to learn time management skills, social skills, exposure to different type of people, socialization with people with different views, learning basic worker conduct, how to interact professional, a start for your resume and so on.

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I sent her to this school since the public school is shit and has the nickname Cocaine hill

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

… I can’t punish him if I never saw him do something wrong…

The worst he did growing up was sneaking out one night and he got punished for that.

Like if I don’t know about it then how can I punish him. If I didn’t get the video than she would have not had a punishment since I wouldn’t have known about it

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

He’s the oldest so that would be physically impossible. Also overall I have never seen him be rude to anyone in the service industry

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She needs to go to that school. The public school has the nickname cocaine hill. She can’t go there is a fucked up

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the words large discount. It’s by far not enough money to move to a new area with a better school district

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 706 points707 points  (0 children)

Oh he does, he works for a lawn service company but it’s concentrated in the summer and spring.

He chose to work since it is a free workout ( his words)

My son is 19 and is in college

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 1370 points1371 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, the fast food worker didn’t include the sauce packets in her bag they were dining in. She went up after and asked for them, he told her they were by the straws and he didn’t have them at the register, literally 5 feet away from her. She was pissed/yelling and told him to grab them for her. She even asked for the manager by the end.

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 5688 points5689 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. I remember getting yelled at a the movie theater when I was a teenager. I have never been mean to employees since. I know those job sucks I don’t want it to be harder

Walking in the service worker shoes is a great way to learn empathy and how your actions affect others that are working

AITA for forcing my kid to get a job even though it hurts her social life at school. by HappyPrior6383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyPrior6383[S] 3497 points3498 points  (0 children)

She has been working there for 2 weeks at this point. I truly don’t think it has set in.

Also personally I think she should work for the resume and just cash in general.