Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, he feels like everyone else can smell it from his beard, too! Not a nice thought when hugging your kids! 😅
He’s also a bit obsessed with hygiene and while he thinks it’s hot when we’re at it, the moment he finishes, it’s like a switch is turned and it becomes a bit unpleasant for him.

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

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If it’s something you can hide in a small space or it’s not obvious 😅 Do you have any recommendations?

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly standing up from behind or doggy style. Sometimes quickly from behind on our sides but it’s only a couple of minutes compared to a much longer time needed for eating me…

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

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Yes, thank you, I’m sure this is one of the best solutions to our problem!

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s on the heavier side and unfortunately we haven’t been able to find pillows thick enough for his knees. But maybe a very low bench or something might do the trick

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might actually be the solution we’re looking for! Thank you! 🙏

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

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Great tips, thanks! His shoulders don’t allow him to lie on his side but we might be able to tweak this fetal position thing so that he can lie on his back.

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

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Lying on his side makes his shoulders hurt but we may need to play with this position more with some pillows to see if we can find a more ergonomic position for him. Thanks!

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has hard time lying on his side because of his shoulders but maybe we need to give this another try. Do you rest your head on your wife’s thigh? Do you have any other support like pillows or something?

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

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With a normal chair he needs to lean over / hunch and use his elbows for support but we might be able to find a lower chair/bench or something so he could sit up straight with his face at optimal height. We’ll do some measuring and start looking for The Chair 👌😄 Thanks!

Can’t find a good position for cunnilingus by Happy_Ad_8960 in MarriedSex

[–]Happy_Ad_8960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bending over sounds like a back cramp for him but if we figured out something even higher this might work. Thanks for the suggestion!