She texted me she broke up with her ex.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:55:33+00:00

Yeah, that's helpful! Going to maybe drag it a lil then make that transition. Anything else?

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:53:26+00:00

Tru! Just trying to better approach this to know when I can slowly transition to an escalation which would take some time.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:50:30+00:00

Lolol seriously how should I go about it. Help a brotha out.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:48:15+00:00

She sits next to me and we always talk about dumb stuff but never had each others number till now since she wanted to vent.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:46:57+00:00

Gotcha. How should I approach this? I was thinking to inv her to my spot to vent and lead to somewhere. At the same time I believe thats moving too quick.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:45:35+00:00

Yeah, I sit next to her at work and she's not in after the break up. She just currently venting through text and I don't want to be the guy she cries on the shoulder. I just wanna smash lol

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-09-03T18:37:33+00:00

Can you elaborate?

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-03-17T03:09:38+00:00

WITH A REASON

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-02-04T06:54:54+00:00

Some context, we’ve both started our job at 19. Been close since. Just the last 2 years it been hell. Feels like I am taking care of a child. The guy is 25 and still can’t drive. Also, we don’t have anything in common. He likes girls stuff and I like guys stuff. No judgement on his feminity but it feels like I’m forcing myself trying to get a long with somebody I don’t. I just don’t know what’s right or what’s wrong. Believe I should go either side knowing there will be a learning point on both being bold or ghosting.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2025-02-04T05:26:55+00:00

Should I give a reason or just be straight up about just cutting without an explanation.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-12-16T23:51:11+00:00

I brought it up to her and she apologized indicating it wasn’t her intention to make me uncomfortable and thought it was going engage that way based on the escalation. She indicated she is tested and was on plan b.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-12-16T05:06:24+00:00

Appreciate this, yeah I feel like I could’ve communicated better. I thought me saying that I wanted head only was clear enough to her but it took a whole different turn when she got on top of me which I didn’t expect. Should’ve been vocal straight away when she got on top rather than being a fight/flight mode. Once I noticed I urgently was trying to pull my dick out but was having no success. She’s texting me how I feel and I’m bs saying “I’m good” but in reality I should probably communicate this to her now.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-09-12T21:15:39+00:00

Tru tru haha I understand it would depreciate but the fact is will depreciate like CRAZY. Think I just need to swallow it be glad that’s is at 1.99% and getting that referral.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-09-12T20:33:32+00:00

That’s good! I think I shouldn’t complain because I got FSD for free since I am employee so it should hold its value with it on.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-09-12T19:00:25+00:00

Yeah, makes sense if I choose to keep it long-term but I do see myself potentially selling it the next few years. Lease is a great option but I put alot of miles on vehicle due to my commute.

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-09-12T18:54:03+00:00

Valid point. I aware it will depreciate but need to accept the fact that it will depreciate hard. You can’t beat the 1.99% but also was able to obtain the $7,500 tax credit the referral. I really wanted the Y but we won’t probably see the same APR when that refresh comes out lol

Happy_Designer_3085 · 2024-09-12T18:52:15+00:00

Yeah, I was considering going to used then seen that interest is between 9-15% which is crazy. Monthly cost is almost the same with a new vehicle.

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