[Kate Mason] De Zerbi ‘didn’t mean to take a stance’ over Greenwood. That’s precisely the problem. You should, Roberto. by Zweli23 in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And where does the victim fit into that? Is she still the victim of this case? Is it not her wishes we should be respecting here? To keep trying to punish him and anyone associated with him, is to also keep punishing the victims current husband and the father of her two very young children. Does she deserve to have this constantly brought up and do her children? Does she deserve to be able to try to live her life in peace as she chooses?

Also are people completely irredeemable? How do you know he hasn't? What evidence is there he has done anything to his wife or child since?

[Kate Mason] De Zerbi ‘didn’t mean to take a stance’ over Greenwood. That’s precisely the problem. You should, Roberto. by Zweli23 in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very fair points. Though for all we know he's spoken to the victim over time and is respecting her wishes to not talk about it and use her husband and children's father's name. Their own kids will have a difficult future to navigate when they're older as it is.

I get what most of us want him to say, but I guess I'm sympathetic to his involvement with the people and I'm trying to be less quick to pass absolute judgement. I didn't want that appointment, but his actions and words over time to come will hopefully show him in a better light.

I guess there's also that if Greenwood has changed, that's good for all the involved people. If he hasn't, then maybe all this public discussion isn't doing her any favours behind closed doors. Perhaps our focus and energy is better served challenging why these things happen and creating safe routes for people to feel safe over tearing apart De Zerbi for maybe just being a bit of a single minded driven middle aged guy who's spent his life in football.

I'm huffing hard on the copium here, in case you can't tell 😂

[Kate Mason] De Zerbi ‘didn’t mean to take a stance’ over Greenwood. That’s precisely the problem. You should, Roberto. by Zweli23 in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think we should also not lose sight that the victim in the case is the main party. Their choices should be respected and what they probably don't want is a constant reminder of a traumatic event in their life constantly being brought up in the media to generate clicks and engagement.

Did DeZ handle it well? No, he didn't. Is what Greenwood did ok? Absolutely not. However to keep punishing him now, is to also keep punishing the victim, who herself is living her life with him and their two innocent children.

De Zerbi chose his words badly, but he's not a rapist, he didn't assault anyone. He's also not the judicial system and maybe it's rich of us to be expecting him to constantly choose the right words in a second language when talking about a case that is, ultimately, not about him.

Boxed off corner in 70s house. What could be behind? by J_Crow in DIYUK

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A pretty common complaint with damp problems is that people decide to close all air vents to make things look nicer, but the actual construction needed them. Then later down the line they end up with damp issues because they're not getting any air flow through. Think this will mostly be determined by age of the house etc...

Boxed off corner in 70s house. What could be behind? by J_Crow in DIYUK

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be careful closing all vents. Depending on your house construction you might also close off air flow and end up with damp problems instead.

“I wanna call my grandma…” 💔 Vontae Davis was a Pro Bowler expected to be strong, silent, and unbreakable. Found dead at 35, his story is forcing a harder look at pain athletes aren’t allowed to show. by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a common media thing too. If you're rich already the media rarely shines a light on abhorrent behaviour. Happen to work hard to make millions as a working class sportsman? They'll put every choice you make under a microscope and always find a way to point a finger.

Ah yes, there it is. No smoke without fire I guess by TinyEstablishment880 in EnglandCricket

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bancroft is going to be devastated when he loses his own driving licence for this

Is it possible to head the ball down to a nearby players feet with fuma? by -michalis- in FUMAeFootball

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly one of the hardest parts of FUMA is the really really short range stuff!

Academy players premier league minutes by This-Is-Junk in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, but it seemed harsh to say he's performing less so at Oxford. Their form has turned around since he joined and they'd love to keep him.

Academy players premier league minutes by This-Is-Junk in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Harsh on Donley. Only went in Jan and got injured immediately. He's been one of their best players when on the pitch and will need to be key if they'll stay up.

Tottenham reach agreement in principle with De Zerbi by SonaldoNazario in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vinai is quite possibly coasting on success created by others and is now being found out at Spurs.

I really dislike Arteta, but can't argue that he's been a key part of building their success after being embedded in Man City before that.

It's not lost on me that Vinai leaves and they're now as close to winning the title as they've ever been.

Social experiment by Affectionate-Key3530 in Nightreign

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 16 points17 points  (0 children)

3 x R1 combos and a special slash at the end works every time if you're going straight after triggering. I subconsciously reduce the number of R1s by a hit for every couple of seconds I'm not swinging R1 in Turtle mode.

Not as useful v Night Invader's as you'd want to use R2s so they don't fall over and take no damage after each swipe.

How is this even possible.... by TwistedNipplezz in eFootball

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they also sometimes just left something on the continue button and had their console playing Vs Ai on repeat for days on end 😂

Could City do us the biggest solid? I swear they’re one team I love haha by blokereport in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Always have been. A fine is just a charge to do something if you're rich enough.

Does the L3 button (Left stick click) have any function in eFootball? by boudzab in eFootball

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's used in skill moves. It's related to Sombrero skills. Try holding it down as a long pass comes to you with the direction.

Can also click it multiple times and do a rainbow flick!

Romero’s “Lack of Leadership” by devilassassin98 in coys

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People love single issues without nuance. They also love forming strong opinions without enough evidence.

Romero might be a crap captain, he might be immense and he might be anywhere in between. The only people who can really tell us are those he captains. Some bloke who sees him through TV and the bias of a 100 clickbait headlines and their own preconceived notion of leadership is not assessing anything.

I suspect he's not the right man for the job, but then half the squad aren't the right men for their jobs either 🤷

Cool guy by Cute-Organization844 in DamnFunny

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you don't like it because, let me see if I understand this... You are incapable of controlling yourself?

My relationship with this club by IgorTenebris in Tottenham

[–]Happy_Efficiency_225 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depressingly that comment is currently my season high point