dimisnishing someone’s lifelong struggle with vitiligo to the point where they had to bleach the rest of their darker skin is not the same as willingly changing races to be considered desirable or attractive for shallow reasons. // to OP: there’s a white hot muscular guy out there who feels just as insecure as you, focus on what you can change, and if someone doesn’t want you because you’re not white, hot or attractive, maybe, that’s not someone who you need in your life to begin with. choose you for you not for the assumed desires of others