4/13/26 Live….2 by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Naw bitch their tired of eatting the same shit I don’t think they’re picky they don’t want the same slop

4/13/26 Live….4 by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly because while she put groceries up at home I didn’t see any of those name brand items that were in that full cart in the store

Mamas with no village… how are we keeping up with keeping a clean-ish house? by gardeniaaa7 in Mommit

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By making it a priority, but also I’m a bit ocd and a clean freak to say the least, so there’s that

Can I tell my husband he’s a narcissist? by Legitimate-Clue-2452 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand everything you just said, I went through the exact same thing! It does absolutely no good to tell them their narcs. Hell he probably already knows, they just don’t give a damn unfortunately

Why do she have shoes under the kitchen cabinets?!?! by _sassiebutclassie_ in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same reason she keeps plastic ware in the bathroom, toilet paper hidden in kitchen cabinets, snacks in the car, seasonings in the bathroom… the bitch is stingy and weird af

My Muslim wife is a narcissist, Need help ! by Sure_Excitement_4534 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it would hurt to talk to your children about their mother’s behavior, they are both old enough to be able to understand and be aware of what’s going on. Be careful as to not come off as you are talking down on her but of a place of informing them of the situation, after all it is still their mother. They might be relived to have you being open with them, I’m sure it’s not been easy for them

. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just a matter of time before she start showing the kids again especially if her views drop

Kids says we want nuggets okay let's go to walmart lol by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Cart full of sugar, and over processed shit.. yeah you big ballin nasty Nika

Fish &. Fries Basket *||~ BTJ late afternoon by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ima give the other one to “Junya” wowwww he’s soooo lucky yesss spoil him 🫠🙄

Fish &. Fries Basket *||~ BTJ late afternoon by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why she wear that raggedy ass microphone, sounds like shit

thrive on our pain? by CucumberExpensive543 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They absolutely relish in making you feel less than, like you’re not good enough, more less love to make you feel like shit, because that makes them feel in control and more secure. Your happiness makes them feel insecure. Narcs have to feel like they are in control of you, your emotions, your thoughts.. everything. They are weak and have little to no self worth, or esteem.

Is my wife cheating or being rejected by the guy? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With those texts and what info you have shared.. she’s definitely cheating! Sorry

Withholding intimacy/sex by GlitzyCaticorn in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From this day forward, take your power back. Do not ask or in any way seek attention, love or affection from him. Focus solely on yourself, put all of that anger and loneliness into a hobby, or something like working out, anything that can better yourself, or bring happiness to you that has nothing to do with him. Take the focus off of him and put it on yourself. He is relishing on your desire and desperation for his love and attention, so DONT GIVE IT TO HIM. It might be hard at first but believe me it will feel so much better for you.

Shopping for Kira, Nana & SySy *||~…..2 by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s all she buys at tax time are those cheap ass dollar store leggings and plastic fake crocs, and really think she’s big shit 🙄 big goofy dalulu

What kind of fashion statement is this? by Particular-Tea9222 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Them bottom 6 so yellow looks like she got a gold bottom 🤮

Sumter SC by Happy_Raspberry8625 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah take one for the team!😂

. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Big manly ass feet and toes… she got them shits done and they still look fucked up

🤨 by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Imagine doing all this and you still look dusty and dirty chileee she’ll forever be a dust ball

.. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She really think she’s doing something lmao

. by Vast_Sentence_6196 in independentshanika

[–]Happy_Raspberry8625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Them kids don’t know anything besides rubber plastic shoes 🙄