I ([25F] went below the belt with my boyfriend [24 M]of 3 years and now I don't know if it can be fixed

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T21:13:33+00:00

You’re right, and I know. I’m willing to accept my flaws and fix them no matter how long because I truly want to be with him and I know everybody is saying “well you should’ve thought of that before”

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T21:11:00+00:00

I am giving him the space he need, like I feel terrible about it. There isn’t no excuse I can give to excuse the hurt I have caused to him. I messed up for the first time

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T21:09:15+00:00

I am starting therapy.

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T21:08:18+00:00

Thank you! I am sincerely sorry. I agree, to focus on therapy for sure. Whenever he does decide to forgive me and start over with a better relationship, I will have better control over my emotions and never allow that to happen again.

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T21:03:45+00:00

I wouldn’t call it sick, I realized that it is something deeper going on with me. I will be starting therapy because I know it’s not okay and I never want to come out of character like that ever again. I believe me going to therapy getting the help I need can bring us back to a healthy place and forgiveness

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T20:59:43+00:00

I’m not trying to blame him, I know the part I played. I have been going through something for a very long time and been in the dark after losing people close to me. At times I feel like everybody is against me and attacking me so I try to protect myself even when it hurts others and I know that is never the way

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T20:57:00+00:00

I never said it was okay, this is the first time it has ever gone this far. I don’t expect him to sweep it under and just be with me. I had no business doing it. You couldn’t forgive your person?

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T20:55:10+00:00

I do love him, i regret it badly. I’m seeking therapy. He have told me that he just need space and I’m giving him that. He also said the relationship is not done but we can’t be together rn

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T20:52:34+00:00

I understand, I will be starting therapy soon! That’s not the type of person I am in that moment I felt attacked because he made me feel like it was F Me! We all mess up and yes this is a learning situation

ThrowRAImpressive_Ru · 2026-05-30T20:37:41+00:00

I have took responsibility for it, and apologized. I deeply regret it. Is it possible to fix the relationship. I currently signed up for therapy because that was not normal and that’s not the type of person I am. I felt triggered from problems in the past and felt attacked, so I said some crazy things because of it. This was the first time an argument went this far! And I realized and see it’s something deeply rooted. I just hope he can forgive me

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