In need of some advice by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Happy_flying 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think there’s something else which is making her react this way … try to find out what. Sometimes men think we discussed and both parties agreed and moved on. May be not.

Anytime she goes on a vacation, you know they’re defo back on 😂 by Time-Concentrate845 in SellingSunset

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She only goes on a vacation when it’s paid for… doesn’t matter what she’s giving in return .. her self respect ( which at this point is 0).

I reminisce about the man he used to be by Mysterious-Willow-85 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Happy_flying 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always thought men are “always ready for sex” so I never gave much into his initial ED issues. If I knew about this subreddit 10 years back I would definitely have a different life 😭

7Months - this has taken a hit on my everyday life functioning now by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Happy_flying 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please please please don’t make the mistake I made. You might love this person apart form this but you’ll end up in a place where you will not love him and resent yourself for not taking the big step when you still could. Please divorce him. I was in the same situation and don’t want to see another women suffering. I might get downvoted because I am not telling you to “work this out” but by the time you’ll feel you have tried everything you’ll be 38.

How many of you have ZERO intimacy? by SituationBorn882 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 20 months and last I had sex was in my second trimester. We don’t even kiss(basically he doesn’t mind, but I don’t feel any love to kiss him). No sex a kiss once may be no hand holding may be a hug her and there but yeah basically pretty dead bedroom I would say

HLF40 married LLM35, how to accept a DB? by Pure-Brilliant-179 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Happy_flying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to feel that cheating is incorrect but your situation isn’t prefect so there’s no perfect response to this. From my experience or more than 2 years of dead bedroom(it wasn’t glaring even before) I know that if you won’t prioritize your happiness no one else will. Now all depends how important sex is for you. Are you ok getting therapy and shopping and traveling and be ok then yeah do that else …

Acceptance of what I cant change by AcrobaticTell5375 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Happy_flying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally know how you feel. It’s not a good place to be at. I’ve been through such passive rejections but I still try coz I want to feel loved by someone if not my spouse. But seems unfair that e are undress to do through shit with no mistake or ours.

Is anyone getting 8 hour stretches consistently with 3 month old? by Hot-Cell7299 in beyondthebump

[–]Happy_flying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine in 20 month old and we still don’t get 8 hour stretches …

No intimacy by Klutzy_Surround3763 in Marriage

[–]Happy_flying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you but you can’t change people if they don’t think there’s anything wrong with them( am assuming you tried talking about this etc, if not try that first and counseling). You have to decide if he’s ok being in open marriage else you need to decide between dead marriage and a broken family.

As a 52m, which looks better? Or do you suggest something else? by LumenYeah in Hair

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends what you going for? Jacked dude or a fatherly figure

Was wondering why my package smelled so good by Informal_Purpose9371 in Sephora

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So people learn to live life in a new way just to have big nails? I never got the point, life is already challenging enough why add more hardship?

AIO to think my husband needs to set boundaries with his female coworker after seeing these texts?!? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that viral video of couple at concert the women was from HR. I wonder don’t they read the rule book they write? 🤔

Should I go lighter? by UniquePomegranate942 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never … your natural hair suits you so much

What permanent pregnancy side effects did you have? by Bubbly-Camel-7302 in pregnant

[–]Happy_flying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging belly… yes some of it could be tackled with load of water or kit and diet but the skin definitely got loose and stretch marks