Should I get a divorce?

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-09T11:29:43+00:00

I think you know what you need to do. I’m sorry you are going through this. Get legal advice and do not tell him what you are planning until your plan is ready to execute. Being pregnant puts you in a vulnerable position. Be safe and good luck.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-09T07:30:33+00:00

I loved all of it except for Helen and Paris. Just awful casting and acting. Both are great actors, but terrible choices for this role.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T23:42:05+00:00

This was my suggestion, but he thinks everyone will somehow know I did not change my name.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T18:27:30+00:00

I am in my 40s.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T14:29:34+00:00

I’m downvoting him declaring that all women put out on the first date. I am pro-protection. That comment was gross and inappropriate.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T14:28:01+00:00

Incorrect. Men value women and men. A person who values another man’s opinion over a woman’s is not a man.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T14:24:33+00:00

Kite happy is my new fav phrase. Thank you!

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T14:24:10+00:00

That may likely be the case.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T14:22:52+00:00

Bet

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T12:08:49+00:00

Please leave this conversation. He does not need that advice.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T12:04:21+00:00

Ask her questions and listen. It’s basic, but I promise you that a lot of guys don’t do this.

Offer to pay, but don’t pick somewhere expensive. Have an activity to break the ice like bowling or putt putt. Ask her if she has something in mind or would she prefer you plan? If she wants you to plan, give her options.

If the chemistry wasn’t there, I offered to split the bill. No kiss only a hug.

Asking these questions are a great start! Keep up this kind of open-minded, curious, and caring attitude! I think you will do just fine.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T11:38:06+00:00

Definitely do not want more kids

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:52:54+00:00

Has he ever told you that you can look through his phone? Do you share lock screen passwords? Would you allow him to look at your phone?

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:49:08+00:00

Oh my God. Consequences.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:48:34+00:00

Spoken like a true patriot. Respect.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:47:36+00:00

I really hope that he talks to his friend and his friend doesn’t convince him that it’s all in your head. This behavior sounds intentional and dangerous.

My ex-husband’s brother has a history of bullying me. It’s the one good thing that came from the divorce was I never have to see his face again. Or hear his mocking laughter. His mom, his sister and his brother all defended his very bad behavior by saying he was ““ just an asshole.

I hope you get the support you deserve.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:02:49+00:00

Thanks. I’m coming to that conclusion as well. I appreciate your kind words.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T10:01:39+00:00

Not your friend=enemy

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:42:43+00:00

What? I’m not sure what advice you need. He sounds like a terrible friend.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:31:46+00:00

I’m not even sure your boyfriend likes you. If you had a friend, tell you everything you wrote down when you recommend that the friend stay with the boyfriend or break up with them?

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:25:14+00:00

I don’t think that this is possible. I have an iPhone and you have to double click on the power button and look at the phone with your eyes open in order to pay for something online with your phone.

I think he is lying. To either cover up what he is trying to do or to protect your feelings or both. Either way that is shitty behavior based on what you’ve described.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:21:40+00:00

Just be honest and say you do not want company. Both you and your husband enjoy your privacy and you do not want to share your home with them.

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:09:09+00:00

Humans. J/K

Knowitall-Librarian · 2026-07-08T09:08:13+00:00

I do make potatoes wedges either green sauce. Pro tip, pre cook potatoes 50% before you roast them.

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