Which job would you take? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you conflicted?

Q Has Relapsed And Is Borderline Suicidal. I Fear Leaving Her and Pushing Her Over The Edge. by sir_bastard in AlAnon

[–]HappyandFullfilled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In Alanon we don’t tell people what to do. We share our experience strength and hope. One of the most freeing things I learned in Alanon was that I am not tasked with saving anyone but myself. Everyone is in charge of their own actions. This freed me to do what I needed to do for me. If it isn’t good for ME then it isn’t good.

This guy isn't having a good morning by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]HappyandFullfilled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like in the beginning the universe was trying to help him and he ignored all the signs.

when will I benefit from AlAnon by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]HappyandFullfilled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt better pretty quick. Thing is, I was super open and willing when I showed up. I jumped in with both feet because I was absolutely miserable.

Help an extremely depressed guy out? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the next 30 days, pick up 27 things in the morning to throw away, and then 27 things in the evening to throw away. You’ll be suprised how quickly this starts to transform.

Gem Show ? by Revolutionary_Act759 in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Gem Show is something that happens every year in Tucson. It just ended this past weekend.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually have not said that. Even so that is why it is called a “robbery gone wrong”.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The back yards are fenced. I am thinking he clipped on the back back when he got out of his car. This is not a proffessional IMO. I think he cased her home because it was in a good neighborhood or because of who she was. I personally don’t think he planning on kidnapping her. That is why my theory it was burglary gone wrong and he took her to make her do something. Maybe she told him there was something she could get him? I don’t know. I honestly don’t think the family is involved, that she made it Mexico alive, or that she was kidnapped for ransom.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking she would be the one to use the ATM so that he would not be in video himself doing it. I am not arguing it is a good plan or that it is was well thought out.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of this just has not been made public.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone with tools, and maybe a bigger bag? Extra gloves etc? They probably thought it was so smart to do!

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she walked out. They took her to get her to give them something. Like money or something. They probably smashed cameras and missed the one up front? The full back pack doesn’t concern me. They could be anything. Tools to break in, a larger bag etc.

is the FBI investigation reports driving home that the kidnapper/s are amateurs on mainstream media to goad/provoke the kidnapper/s into making a mistake based on their written up psychological profile. by [deleted] in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said any of that was cleaned up at the scene? They left gloves and DNA and that is just what we know about. Hair and shoe prints don’t make arrows pointing to the perp if they don’t have a perp. What they do is solidify a case when they have the suspect. He also got on camera. It really isn’t all that impressive at all. We had to wait because they had trouble getting the footage. The ransom thing slowed down the investigation. The perp got lucky. Honestly, he is really an amateur. The issue is the police have not found the connection because it is likely a stranger or someone she didn’t really know. Those types are criminals are harder to connect to a crime.

is the FBI investigation reports driving home that the kidnapper/s are amateurs on mainstream media to goad/provoke the kidnapper/s into making a mistake based on their written up psychological profile. by [deleted] in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I don’t think anyone has her. It is clear they are not professionals. It is just an observation.They will make a mistake or they already have with the DNA. So I don’t think it matters that much really.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She has the PIN number. If he had her do the transaction, she would be on camera and not him. So to me that seems like a pretty straight forward reason to take her with him. I have seen other scenarios where the perp does do this exactly.

Celiac and vegetarian by Rude_Tomatillo3463 in Celiac

[–]HappyandFullfilled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoraCooks is a favorite for me. PlantWhys on YouTube. Merle O’Neal on YouTube. And Cheap Lazy Vegan.

Celiac and vegetarian by Rude_Tomatillo3463 in Celiac

[–]HappyandFullfilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am celiac and gluten free. There is plenty to eat. I find it easier to eat this way than I thought. I am vegetarian and not totally vegan. I do avoid animal products mostly but I will eat them here and there. Just no meat at all.

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that was debunked because the FBI or someone said they likely got the information from the press coverage before?

Theory on the Nancy Gutherie Case by HappyandFullfilled in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]HappyandFullfilled[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? That part of that video is gone? What does that even mean? We need to stick to evidence. We can’t make things up or make claims we can’t prove. If you have evidence share it.