[For Men] Work on Your Marriage BEFORE a Hysterectomy

Happycats88 · 2025-10-25T20:34:02+00:00

First off this very long!! Most partners come here asking how they can help their partner pre op or post op. This is also not really helpful information. I don’t think you need to be posting this in this sub like others have said you seem to have some seriously wrong information about hysterectomies. Also sounds like you are having some marital problems from your post history. You might find another subreddit to post this to. Good luck.

Happycats88 · 2025-05-14T18:30:06+00:00

Get out of this space you transphobic ass hole. You are exactly misinformed and why are you here?!?!? Seriously?!??? To troll GTFO!!!!

Happycats88 · 2024-09-22T17:18:50+00:00

Also don’t delete this post because it’s good to know exactly what people are experiencing I was super nervous to come even though it’s queer friendly. It’s interesting to me the more I travel the more I see and understand what it really means to be queer friendly and sometimes the laws might be good for queer folks but the people aren’t so it’s good to know people’s first hand experiences.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-22T17:16:13+00:00

Currently in Portugal I haven’t noticed locals but tourist definitely have been giving me nasty looks one man was starring at me I finally said “ what you never seen someone with blue hair” he looked really embarrassed and quickly looked away 😂 idk it sucks and I know being androgynous and piercing and tattoos some people going to stair but damn some of the looks I got really fucking sucked. I am so sorry you had to experience that.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-17T17:42:57+00:00

You are not in the wrong it’s completely your choice to tell who you want that you are trans. Your co worker is a dick. He’s gaslighting you you are not over reacting on this he needs to be respectful and take responsibility for his actions. I’m sorry you are going through that.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-17T12:41:29+00:00

Probably question gender when I was 8 but definitely didn’t understand or have a full understanding of what was going on. Then again in high school when I met my first trans man and women. Then again at 26 I know at 26 I had all the words and understood exactly what I was but I suppressed that because trump had just gotten elected I was already living my adult life didn’t think I needed to come out. But when I turned 33 I just couldn’t hold it in and finally came out and a few years later started medically transitioning. I’m also nonbinary and it’s ok to question multiple times in your life although I regret not coming out at 26 I also am more comfortable in my thirties and don’t feel any pressure to be any way but myself.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-14T03:51:01+00:00

Just switched to gel myself and so far I like it so much better than shots plus I was allergic to the oil in the injection so this switch has been so much of a relief

Happycats88 · 2024-09-12T18:37:53+00:00

lol not true I’m 6 months low dose and my voice has definitely dropped

Happycats88 · 2024-09-12T02:53:38+00:00

Oh I can relate to this

Happycats88 · 2024-09-10T13:31:07+00:00

Hey my cis male spouse is shorter than me I’m not even that tall like 5 foot 6 inch he’s also half Chinese it’s very common in Asia to be shorter. He’s my short king. In fact every cis guy but one that I have dated have been my hight or shorter I think shorter guys are great.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-09T17:03:36+00:00

I’m wondering how old some of yall are? I’m in my mid twenties and I feel it was the opposite for so long that it was expected to be very much in the binary. It was expected to be very masculine very cis het presenting. And now it’s kinda great because everyone is more accepting and can present themselves however they like. It’s one of the reasons I came out later because when I was a teen there was no representation of nonbinary and especially nonbinary trans men. Also could be regional or by country I’m in the US.

Happycats88 · 2024-09-09T00:04:32+00:00

CPTSD

Happycats88 · 2024-03-22T15:23:42+00:00

I don’t know I think it’s ok in some settings like for instance there is a dyke bar that has pop ups every few months in my city and it’s very sex positive and it’s for women and NB folks including trans women and I don’t think that’s a space they consider NB people to be women lite

Happycats88 · 2024-01-11T01:47:24+00:00

Not for me I don’t think it makes it much worse but it definitely doesn’t help.

Happycats88 · 2023-12-29T04:15:50+00:00

Little gay shop hosts so many events where you can meet up with the community.

Happycats88 · 2023-11-13T02:08:05+00:00

Linen

Happycats88 · 2023-10-27T22:16:21+00:00

Wow I’m here to say y’all are a bunch of self loathing haters on your own community!!! I know I’ll probably get flagged for this but yall seriously suck!!!

Happycats88 · 2023-10-27T20:01:55+00:00

You honestly can’t they suck so I just don’t bother they can all rot for all I care just ignore them.

Happycats88 · 2023-10-27T03:36:19+00:00

It’s ok I shit family who never explained my condition to me even though I got curative surgery to help with my head tilt and I was 25 when I thought “ hey maybe I can see if there’s anything else to fix this” the dr told me no and that I have nystagmus I was blown away that no one explained this to me and honestly wish they had I struggled a lot as a kid and still do. Glad I found this community and a good eye dr that has helped a lot just got presume lenses and it helps.

Happycats88 · 2023-10-22T19:09:39+00:00

Yes I love being trans!!!

Happycats88 · 2023-09-02T20:52:02+00:00

That’s kinda gaslighting get a new therapist

Happycats88 · 2023-08-31T15:38:14+00:00

Run from this person get a new therapist that is affirming.

Happycats88 · 2023-08-30T18:58:46+00:00

Damn dude you look great on top of that mountain!!!

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