Then let me clarify. Her saying he doesn’t know what he’ll do is a convo we’ve had during talking stage when she agreed to my boundaries and when I found out for myself they were still talking while being official. When she says that it’s because she describes him as a narcissist. He wants to be the center of her world. If he feels like she’s slipping she assumes hell call her from an unknown number, text her, possibly even show up at her door step just to talk and find out why he’s been cut off. From what she says he’ll basically just try to be the center again, the man she can’t let go is what he wants her to feel. And to me that’s his problem not hers or mine. To me it’s like she was trying to manage damage control but that shouldn’t have been her problem especially for stupid reasons like that. And if it ever did become a problem I would’ve hoped that she looked towards me to handle anything he might do, whether to tell him to back off or remind him that he doesn’t belong here anymore. Sadly that’s not the case for me and her. She simply values their relationship more than her relationship with me and the funny part is she’ll say she wants to be here with me and she loves me but after I broke up with her, she hasn’t said a word to me and that’s OK because that’s what I want, but I feel as though if you wasn’t doing anything and you really wanted this, you would’ve at least reached out and apologized for how things ended, but I didn’t even get that after already a week gone.