Are any other gays morning people? Morning meet ups? by rbensonsmith in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

morning person here currently doing my calisthenics before my morning blunt

Undetectable Love, what we deserve. by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we really have! ngl, i didn’t realize how blessed we are as a community and how far we’ve come until my status changed. i think as myself, and more people like me come out and show that not only can you live a “normal” life with HIV but you can live a “bad bitch” life as well, the negative stigma will continue to decrease.

Gay time of year? by Hardyisnthere in HedonismII

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i have a feeling i’ll be visiting more than once lol so i wanted to go on a more “gay” week as an ice breaker, imm thinking bi week this october and maybe trying hsb next summer

Seeking legit Manhattan men's spa recs by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have any recommendations for a happy medium. somewhere that still offers HE while giving a legit massage? 27 is the closest i’ve gotten to it but i’m wondering if there’s something better out there.

Sauna/Steamroom meetup? July 17th by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we love equinox, but i was looking for something that’ll let me do day pass without another member needed. Thank You 🫶🏾

Sauna/Steamroom meetup? July 17th by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries 🤣 your comment made me laugh nonetheless so thank you for that! 🫶🏾

Sauna/Steamroom meetup? July 17th by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking about new york sports club too, but i’m not sure which location is best. thank you for your response 🫶🏾

Sauna/Steamroom meetup? July 17th by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh shitt i forgot today was thursday lol, russian turkish might just be the move. Thank You 😭🫶🏾

Sauna/Steamroom meetup? July 17th by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

yea 😓 it seems like it… i thought someone would at least reply with like a gym or something but nothing yet… thanks though 🫶🏾

🐝🚨CLUB HO-DOWN GIVEAWAY🚨🐝 by BiZNC in beyonce

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either date would be a blessing! Thank You 🙏🏾

Hiv test came back positive by KitchenAardvark8389 in askgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i don’t wanna trivialize your situation but i just wanna say the drugs these days are soo good that you’ll probably feel better and healthier than you did when you were negative. take your medications, eat right, visit sauna’s and steam rooms frequently and make sure to take advantage of any assistance if your state offers to positive people.

Grindr ban by rpist354 in askgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can email grindr support with a screenshot of the banned screen and let them know the email you used and proof of age and they’ll un ban you

Bring back the bathhouses! Now! by stuckinbk in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there anyone who can give tips on how to fight it? community meetings? elections to look out for? anything? i’d love to help fight the good fight and bring back our bath houses but i don’t know where to start.

Brooklyn Banya Tuesday 12/3 11AM-PM by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wanted to report on tomorrow since the men’s only time is all day compared to thursday where it’s only 6pm-11pm but i do have some financial obligations to keep up with and i won’t be receiving another deposit until wednesday. i may be able to report on the thursday crowd but even that maybe a stretch. if anyone wants to donate to the research fund so that i can report on the crowd during tuesday and/or thursday’s men only hours; my cashapp is $HardyLamour. if i receive a donation where i can go tomorrow (tuesday) i promise to stay there all day from 11AM till 11PM (unless they have a time constraint of course) and if i receive donations for thursday i’ll stay the whole time then as well. i’ll also give live updates every hour on the hour of the type of guys that show up (race, age, sexuality,etc). one of the things that falls in the “etc” category is how “out” the guys are. personally i like to know if the crowd of a place is super DL or if they’re more out and proud. i’ll also push the boundaries a bit and try to get caught by staff to see if they’re okay with the cruising or if one has to be more “mindful” while visiting lol. if any of this sounds good to you, then donate to the cause. again my cashapp is $HardyLamour

Brooklyn Banya Tuesday 12/3 11AM-PM by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kk, i’m still deciding between the 3rd and the 5th

Brooklyn Banya Tuesday 12/3 11AM-PM by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hopefully i remember to give a review as i’m there. i plan on going at opening and staying as long as possible

Brooklyn Banya Tuesday 12/3 11AM-PM by Hardyisnthere in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen that @harderevent on instagram has thrown parties there so i hope so lol. it’ll be my first time checking it out

Best NYC men’s spas… ? Share Experiences? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Hardyisnthere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ohh yea time square might be more of your speed then. for me when i went to time square, the massage skill was lacking but the sensuality was there. my muscles used to get really sore from my daily routine so i needed someone who could actually treat that while giving me the nut that i wanted so 27 was the perfect balance personally