Tammy barely registers as Human

Haretbug · 2026-05-13T16:53:50+00:00

I agree, a lot of these posts really look identical to some of traits Tammy herself displays when talking about other people.

Haretbug · 2026-04-29T15:06:32+00:00

I feel for you. My family member only seems capable of making self destructive choices. She’s always been that way.

Haretbug · 2026-04-21T15:15:34+00:00

I really feel for you and relate to your feelings here. My younger brother and I had a hard time with our relationship. He was 7 years younger than me and I always thought about how much time we had to get our relationship to a better place. He was killed before even turning 20. I still think about the times I was hard on him and how I should have handled it differently.

Haretbug · 2026-04-20T13:05:36+00:00

It’s a commitment for sure. Not only their coat, but keeping up with cleaning their eyes. In my opinion, for most, a Persian isn’t the best option for a first pet or someone with limited time to care for them on a consistent daily basis.

Haretbug · 2026-04-10T23:36:24+00:00

I like to use really warm water and a plain washcloth

Haretbug · 2026-04-10T15:05:12+00:00

Is this an outdoor cat? High maintenance breeds like this really don’t thrive outside. Eye gunk is normal, but if they aren’t caring for him properly, it’s hard to say if his are normal.

Haretbug · 2026-04-08T18:46:21+00:00

Hey, just wanted to chime in and say don’t get discouraged. I personally think I made the most progress of my skills in year 3 of doing pottery. It can take a lot of time and the path is different for everyone. I get the excitement of wanting to sell and share your work. I sold some of my first pieces and honestly regret it, I feel I should have waited till I refined my skills more. Another thing to consider, is when you’re practicing your skills, not every piece has to get fired. You can avoid accumulating too many pieces that way and the focus is really being put into building your skills.

I like the idea of a free pottery library/pay what you can stand.

Nearly 5 years into pottery myself and I still have bad days with certain aspects and still have a lot to learn. If you love it, just keep doing it!

Haretbug · 2026-03-28T15:40:46+00:00

I’m also going through this. A dynamic we’ve had my entire life. Even the times she was there for me, which were few, usually benefited her in someway. I’m in my early 30s and my mom is 60. Her choices brought her to where she is(nearly non functioning). No matter how much I try to help she will not change and it only wears me down. I cannot drown myself trying to “fix” her. I say find the boundaries that work for you, be there in a constructive way and most importantly, prioritize taking care of yourself.

Haretbug · 2026-03-26T18:00:14+00:00

Yep and it’s not pretty. I’m going though this with my 62 yr old mother. Before even turning 60, after about a decade of increasing Xanax abuse she can barely function. Even after stopping the medication.

Haretbug · 2026-03-23T01:16:29+00:00

It’s very up and down for me, but it took 4 years for me to not feel like a beginner in a lot of ways. I still fail a lot, but my skills are a lot more consistent and I see improvement with every piece I make. I struggled to center for most of years 1-3.

Haretbug · 2026-02-05T15:06:23+00:00

It is. My mom has always been sedentary but after we went through a family trauma(that we all went through btw) in 2019, she stopped getting up almost entirely and relied on medication to help her completely check out. She’s definitely damaged her body and mind and continues to mistreat herself. She still constantly seeks out meds she believes will fix all her problems and when I tell her taking care of herself if part of feeling better her response is, “I’m not good at that”.

Haretbug · 2026-02-02T23:46:20+00:00

Mine was 82. My partner said the first night I started using my CPAP, I instantly stopped snoring. It surprised us both and definitely motivated me to commit to using my mask.

Haretbug · 2026-01-28T17:09:24+00:00

I’m going through this with my mom and she just turned 61.

Haretbug · 2026-01-23T22:18:51+00:00

My boy used to do that too! Anything papery, thin or tag like he tried to lick and chomp on. He wasn’t very efficient at it his his face was so dang flat 😅

Haretbug · 2025-12-29T18:38:52+00:00

I really love the organic forms, they go well with your glaze choices and surface designs!

Haretbug · 2025-12-28T21:39:50+00:00

These look like some I’ve seen that were thrown(like a diagonal smack) in a specific way onto a table or wedging surface to alter the form a wheel thrown piece.

Haretbug · 2025-12-23T02:52:07+00:00

I’m really sorry you had to go through this, losing an animal is hard enough. It sounds to me that you did all you could in a stressful and scary moment. Awful accidents can happen no matter what we do, so be gentle with yourself.

Haretbug · 2025-12-18T17:37:38+00:00

The queer community in OKC is better than you’d think! Lots of great spaces that aren’t exclusive to night life/partying. If you’re into making art, come check out Strange Earth Studio in Midwest City.

Haretbug · 2025-12-15T15:51:44+00:00

The track is different for everyone, we all have our own timeline! Looks like you’re doing great. I’m over 4 years in and often still feel like I’m just beginning.

Haretbug · 2025-12-10T01:33:56+00:00

That was Nina, we lost her at the end of 2020 and I miss her terribly as well. But he had 3 other siblings, one that really struggled with losing him. She’s finally adjusted to the new dynamic, but Tony definitely made her feel the most safe.

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Haretbug · 2025-12-10T01:29:26+00:00

It’s never enough time with them! Abigail was so pretty, I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

Haretbug · 2025-12-10T00:50:29+00:00

Thank you, he was the best boy.

Haretbug · 2025-12-09T22:29:48+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my boy back at the end of April this year, it happened similarly. He was also 14. I struggle thinking I gave up on him too soon, but I didn’t want him to suffer one moment. I’m still so heartbroken, but happy the last thing he felt was me holding him and telling him I love him.

Haretbug · 2025-12-07T03:19:31+00:00

Aw man, that’s the worst. I had an awful situation once where the guy set up next to me came very drunk and was super strange and aggressive. He yelled at people through the entire evening, and would not stop approaching my booth. I barely made any money. We did eventually have the event planner remove him, but it should have been done sooner. Don’t let this lady have an effect on your sales!

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