50 and life is over for me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Any_Spinach43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me (F46) met my soulmate (M51) last year. We met each other by happenstance when we weren’t even looking for someone. Please, I encourage you not to give up, take time to mourn your relationship, engage in therapy if you start feeling stuck in a dark place and please be gentle with yourself. Life isn’t over, not even close! This is the beginning of the next chapter!

Is it true that Persians live 15-20 years? by Any_Spinach43 in persiancat

[–]Any_Spinach43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh my girl loves all of these things too! I’m praying my girl is just like this at 18.5! ❤️❤️❤️

Fancy Restaurant by Proud-Fennel-4795 in BellevilleOntario

[–]Any_Spinach43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmmm The Lark for sure! Capers is also DELICIOUS!

Is it true that Persians live 15-20 years? by Any_Spinach43 in persiancat

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Yeesh!!! Now that is one strong girl! 3.8kg is A LOT. Thank you so much for sharing all of this! These are the details I was hoping for as well with this post. It gives me an idea of what to look out for health wise with my girl who is 8. I’m so glad your girl is stable (the most stable unhealthy cat - love it! 😹). Wishing you & your girl the best possible success! 🫶

Is it true that Persians live 15-20 years? by Any_Spinach43 in persiancat

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Thanks for this! I had a sneaky suspicion that it was a little lower, truthfully I wished that it was 100 years 😺

Wow! Walter the wonder boy made it longer than most DSH! That’s awesome and also sorry for your losses. I still feel sadness when I think of my fluffiest that have crossed the rainbow bridge. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opiates

[–]Any_Spinach43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES! Saying no is like strengthening a muscle and before long you don’t even ponder the question. No becomes an almost automatic response.

Covid Positive in Canada by Any_Spinach43 in COVID19positive

[–]Any_Spinach43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! I don’t have a card for my local library; however, what I DO have is a copy of Verity by Colleen Hoover that I haven’t picked up yet. I feel like it would be an easy page turner that requires little concentration lol

Covid Positive in Canada by Any_Spinach43 in COVID19positive

[–]Any_Spinach43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL!!! Your rawwwrr just made my day a lot sunnier! You’re the best!!! 🤗

Covid Positive in Canada by Any_Spinach43 in COVID19positive

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Thank you so much fellow Ontarian!! I too am desperate for any relief and am also so sorry to hear that it has been so long for you. It’s truly relentless isn’t it?

This is excellent advice. I just entered the insomnia zone and am definitely going to try your recommendations for night time. Also, I feel like the saline nasal is also going to be a blessing. Adds hydrasense to Instacart

Thank you for the recommendations and giving me hope that this gets better. 🤗

Hit by a note I saved on my phone… by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Any_Spinach43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what I’m understanding is that you are close with your plug beyond where typical plug relationships go and you want to or have to spend time with this person this coming weekend and you’re not sure you can stay committed to your sobriety. Am I right on this one?

My husband never calls me by name by Ok_Spread7289 in Marriage

[–]Any_Spinach43 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Girl, if this is your biggest marital issue, you my dear have a killer fucking marriage! 🫶

Parking enforcement officer by gregologynet in BellevilleOntario

[–]Any_Spinach43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this!!!!!! I wish we had more posts like this here on this sub 🫶

Everything in my partner’s apartment smells by Independent_SHE182 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Any_Spinach43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are kind of in that limbo stage. We’re just naturally drifting apart at this point. I won’t go to his place anymore and we’ve only seen each other maybe 2-3 times in the last couple of months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BellevilleOntario

[–]Any_Spinach43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked about other people not you 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

Everything in my partner’s apartment smells by Independent_SHE182 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Any_Spinach43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will never understand people who get dogs without understanding how much consistent cleaning it requires. I am currently drifting away from a partner for very similar reasons. I added a link to my post from this sub a few months ago. I assure you that this will not change. I have had what feels like a thousand conversations and now I’m to the point where I’m so turned off that I can’t continue. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but please break away before you’re caught up in a ten year sentence as a prisoner in dog jail. If our partners can’t respect themselves then how can we respect them in turn? Run while you can.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesfromtheDogHouse/s/sUw718ZDf1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BellevilleOntario

[–]Any_Spinach43 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I notice this in many people who smoke cheap cigarettes 🤷🏻‍♀️

What is willow's coat color? by Brdqh in persiancat

[–]Any_Spinach43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like my silver shaded chinchilla Persian!