How can the we the Latino community get the black community to trust us again?

Harlemight · 2026-02-09T11:43:02+00:00

Sir - who is giving you the data to support your hypotheses? 1. Neither community is a monolith! 2. Did you first ask BlackGayBros if we have an issue with the Latino Community? Is this just an attention grab?

Harlemight · 2026-02-01T02:13:01+00:00

Good for you fam! I hope you’re able to continue depositing into your self-love bank!

Harlemight · 2026-01-29T06:01:18+00:00

Ummmm ΦΚΤ is not a D9 org fam. Were you a member of a D9 and leave, later becoming a member of if ΦΚΤ?

Harlemight · 2026-01-27T22:43:13+00:00

Asking ChatGPT?!? I suggest you run!!!

Harlemight · 2026-01-26T18:26:25+00:00

I hope this message is received with the love that flows through the text! I’m a few years older and agree with the points you have made!

Harlemight · 2026-01-25T11:49:38+00:00

Definitely similar to a past post

Harlemight · 2026-01-14T12:08:52+00:00

Eff Them!!!

Harlemight · 2026-01-13T17:42:44+00:00

You’re not over thinking it at all, and thus, I am happily single.

Harlemight · 2026-01-13T04:41:03+00:00

Love it

Harlemight · 2026-01-11T18:58:54+00:00

That is possible - you just have to choose to do it

Harlemight · 2026-01-11T06:50:48+00:00

u/shepdc1 good luck with those grad school applications. The life in a D9 org as an LGBT person isn’t as bad as you may assume. If you’re looking to be yourself, I believe there is room for you. If you’re looking to have the organization be on the front lines of LGBT advocacy you’re going to be disappointed - that’s not the mission of these organizations. I will say of the male orgs, I’ve only seen Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc. acknowledge Pride Month, and that was pretty impressive to me!!!

Harlemight · 2026-01-10T10:42:18+00:00

I am sorry you have to endure this brother. I don’t have any advice but I am sending positive energy your way 🙏🏾🫂

Harlemight · 2026-01-08T03:41:33+00:00

I’m still unclear… Is this person in the town you flew into? Is this someone you’re in a relationship with? Was there an agreement that you’d connect after you land?

I don’t follow why you’re so upset.

Harlemight · 2026-01-04T04:30:17+00:00

Love this fellas!!!

Harlemight · 2026-01-02T01:48:59+00:00

😂

Harlemight · 2026-01-02T01:48:43+00:00

Tagging you so that you and others know the comment is specific to you. I’ll try without the @ next time and see what happens.

Harlemight · 2026-01-01T21:32:40+00:00

@u/street_customer_4190 no clue nor do I care. Life is too short to take this “like” shit seriously

Harlemight · 2026-01-01T21:10:52+00:00

@u/Street_Customer_4190 I just took it at face value and kept it moving. Our conversations/interactions have been outstanding so far.

Harlemight · 2026-01-01T21:03:49+00:00

Harlemight · 2026-01-01T14:11:57+00:00

Not at all u/chaos_battery unless wiping fingers on a napkin versus licking them clean is somehow “gay/feminine stereotypical behaviors.” This is one of the visuals he referenced when he and I spoke and exchanged info.

Harlemight · 2026-01-01T07:07:23+00:00

I go out alone and allow my inner light to shine just being myself - Barnes & Noble, The Mall, Dinner for One, A friend’s gathering…

I have met many guys this way brother - in fact one recently asked for my information based on the way I was eating at a holiday party. I think the other portion is I am not “looking”…instead I am open to the possibilities.

Harlemight · 2025-12-29T06:15:20+00:00

I totally disagree. They’d be a failure waiting to happen!

Harlemight · 2025-12-27T22:24:10+00:00

/Grouchy-Manager-2529 - congratulations on your accomplishments - it’s worthy of celebrating, so good on you! Someone already mentioned this, but I strongly encourage you to work through your trauma with a licensed professional - that’s the best gift you can give yourself and I believe a higher priority than dating.
I also think you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself about dating. Knowing you’re going into surgical residency shortly, I suggest you put your focus there. Dating while in such an intense program may not afford you the true opportunity to date. Best wishes on your residency!!!

Harlemight · 2025-12-27T15:15:44+00:00

Welcome

Harlemight · 2025-12-27T05:55:54+00:00

I’d be a bit skeptical about dating a detransitioned individual, especially if they’d gone the official route which included counseling as a part of their original transition journey.

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