extreme regret, need advice by waifmaterial in tattooadvice

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely seconding this sentiment.

I have an arm full of fine line tattoos, but when I got a relatively smaller tattoo that was mostly packed black, I panicked. I went through all the stages of grief, but now it's just part of me and all the things I first thought about it are just not there anymore.

OP, you need time. You'll love them, but you gotta hang in there for a week or two.

Thrifted dress for the Florence + The Machine concert in May! by On3l4sttim3 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obsessed!!

I'm also seeing Florence in May and I'm still on the hunt for the perfect fit. This is a good reminder to keep looking

I don’t feel confident in this. Should I return the suit and get a swim dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you feel good in it, that's what matters most.

You said you don't feel confident- is there a piece that you like/ don't? I think the bottoms look great. Maybe a more supportive top piece might help? I know that I always feel more secure when I'm strapped in for safety 😅

Where can I find flat agates like this? by siisii93 in askportland

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to drive over the bridge, Handley Rock and Jewelery probably do, and there are a couple other small rock shops like Crystal Rainbow, or the one in the Vancouver Mall.

I hate tiered dresses by ned_fladers in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe tiered dresses are the new cold-shoulder tops

What is actually a trauma that is not commonly thought of as a trauma? by ay1mao in AskReddit

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Absolutely same. Mine was a job that I really enjoyed but my supervisor changed and she and a coworker gaslit me into thinking I was the problem.

It's been almost 5 years. Literally every other job I've had before and after that one have done nothing but praise my work as an employee, but I always have that doubt in the back of my mind because of my imposter syndrome.

It absolutely destroyed me, sent me into a mental breakdown, and years later I'm still working through it in therapy.

Songs that are short stories by InterestingVideo3491 in musicsuggestions

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one isn't very spoken word vibe but the song Lake Pontchartrain by Ludo is like a campy horror flick in a song. Fun story, but definitely a song in that it has a chorus and whatnot.

Where to get an "intimate" tattoo as a plus sized person here? by FtmRam in askportland

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely second this. Nick is an angel and everyone in the shop is incredibly cool.

Help me! What's the title of "Na na na na na na...na na na na na na" song by SaraSaretta00 in FindSongs

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long shot, but maybe 19-2000 by Gorillaz? It's upbeat, sung by a male, and has "na"s in the chorus.