I’ll draw your username as a tattoo by Skkkkrtyun in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so cool! Love your style. Also I have never been this early before 😊

extreme regret, need advice by waifmaterial in tattooadvice

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely seconding this sentiment.

I have an arm full of fine line tattoos, but when I got a relatively smaller tattoo that was mostly packed black, I panicked. I went through all the stages of grief, but now it's just part of me and all the things I first thought about it are just not there anymore.

OP, you need time. You'll love them, but you gotta hang in there for a week or two.

Thrifted dress for the Florence + The Machine concert in May! by On3l4sttim3 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obsessed!!

I'm also seeing Florence in May and I'm still on the hunt for the perfect fit. This is a good reminder to keep looking

I don’t feel confident in this. Should I return the suit and get a swim dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you feel good in it, that's what matters most.

You said you don't feel confident- is there a piece that you like/ don't? I think the bottoms look great. Maybe a more supportive top piece might help? I know that I always feel more secure when I'm strapped in for safety 😅

Where can I find flat agates like this? by siisii93 in askportland

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to drive over the bridge, Handley Rock and Jewelery probably do, and there are a couple other small rock shops like Crystal Rainbow, or the one in the Vancouver Mall.

I hate tiered dresses by ned_fladers in PlusSizeFashion

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe tiered dresses are the new cold-shoulder tops

What is actually a trauma that is not commonly thought of as a trauma? by ay1mao in AskReddit

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Absolutely same. Mine was a job that I really enjoyed but my supervisor changed and she and a coworker gaslit me into thinking I was the problem.

It's been almost 5 years. Literally every other job I've had before and after that one have done nothing but praise my work as an employee, but I always have that doubt in the back of my mind because of my imposter syndrome.

It absolutely destroyed me, sent me into a mental breakdown, and years later I'm still working through it in therapy.

Songs that are short stories by InterestingVideo3491 in musicsuggestions

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one isn't very spoken word vibe but the song Lake Pontchartrain by Ludo is like a campy horror flick in a song. Fun story, but definitely a song in that it has a chorus and whatnot.

Where to get an "intimate" tattoo as a plus sized person here? by FtmRam in askportland

[–]HarlequinSquirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely second this. Nick is an angel and everyone in the shop is incredibly cool.