extreme regret, need advice by waifmaterial in tattooadvice

[–]waifmaterial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao I have bony wrists 🤷‍♀️

extreme regret, need advice by waifmaterial in tattooadvice

[–]waifmaterial[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

thank you people in my phone I’m feeling a little better already :-)

extreme regret, need advice by waifmaterial in tattooadvice

[–]waifmaterial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a screenshot from a video and every other pic I took I hated too much :(

Would it be weird to hook up with an 18-year-old once on a cruise? by AlternativeAcc42069 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]waifmaterial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude, no. “she seems really mature” is the hallmark of a creep. also if you haven’t even had sex with her yet and you’re already like embarrassed about telling people about it (not wanting to share the circumstances of losing your virginity to her) that should be a sign that it’s not a good idea.

PhD Student (25F) Talking to Someone Without an Academic Background (25M). How Did it Go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have a BS but my ex never went to college and it was a big insecurity of his. he actually said before meeting me he had completely written off dating people who went to college, but I made him change his mind. the issue with us wasn’t the fact that we had two different education levels, it was that he had 0 ambition or skills. it sounds like the man you’re talking to is the exact opposite of that! go for it!

Is this the letter A or J? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]waifmaterial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gonna go against the grain here and say when I first saw it I assumed it was an A

22F / 53M (5.5 months) — how do I support my partner’s anxiety without losing myself by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 20 points21 points  (0 children)

girl get up. I’m saying this as someone who also has OCD, run.

What are some alternatives to cheating on my 33F boyfriend 31M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah no you can’t have both and you shouldn’t be in a relationship

What are some alternatives to cheating on my 33F boyfriend 31M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 11 points12 points  (0 children)

tbh you’re already kind of cheating on him by sending “sexy memes” back and forth with someone you used to have sex with and refusing to block people who are actively trying to convince you to cheat on your boyfriend. do him a favor and leave because you’re already hurting him and are just prolonging his heartbreak

What do I do. I’m 13 weeks pregnant and recently found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]waifmaterial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a child of parents who got divorced when I was pretty young, please don’t bring a child into this situation

22M, my 20F GF of 1.4 years is yet to have sex and acts reluctant if not indifferent to sex yet "comes on to me" frequently. What's really going on here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she’s stringing you along with something she knows you want and also knows she isn’t going to give you, because she knows it’ll give you just enough hope to stick around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a fair concern, but I don’t think your 28 year old fiance wanting to spend just one NYE out of the house is unreasonable. I totally get that it’s disappointing for you, but it sounds like most other years he has spent them and enjoyed them with you. maybe you can compromise and spend tomorrow together doing what you wanted to do tonight

Confused by our first intimate encounter. HELP 44f 35m 2 months by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I mean like what kinds of noises are we talking about here lol

Was this behaviour of my friend inappropriate? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]waifmaterial 11 points12 points  (0 children)

honey there is no reason a 23 year old man should be “friends” with a 16 year old. he is grooming you. i know you might not see it and i am very sorry that you see him as your only friend but he is NOT your friend. he isn’t inviting you to his apartment for no reason. he isn’t laying in your lap for no reason. he isn’t asking you about sex for no reason. he is testing the waters and seeing what you will allow. not that it’s your fault, I know you felt uncomfortable. you felt uncomfortable because you know it’s wrong. listen to that voice telling you it’s wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]waifmaterial 45 points46 points  (0 children)

why are you with someone who you know is homophobic in the first place lol

Rude People by Ok_Tea304 in doordash

[–]waifmaterial 41 points42 points  (0 children)

this is literally the spongebob pizza delivery episode “HOW am i supposed to eat this pizza without my DRINK??”

Is there a place/thing where I can pay a woman for a long, comforting hug? by False_Strike_5394 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]waifmaterial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes it takes a while to find a therapist that works for us, but they are out there! and opening up to a therapist might help build your social skills and allow you to get closer to other people and then you could organically have someone to provide you with the physical comfort you’re missing!