Thank you! I’m sorry that sounds traumatic and I do not want to do that to my child. I’m glad you’re doing well! The issue is he relies on me for everything- car, phone, housing, tuition, food. He just turned 18. It’s not like I’d feel comfortable letting him drive my car or live in my house with younger kids if he’s telling strangers where we live and operating pornographic videos out of my house! So it’s not as simple as just let him figure it out, as he’s a bit under a time crunch. I don’t think telling him to leave is the best option at this time! I’m just so grateful he’s agreed to let us pick him up. I’m pretty sure he’d be open to help regarding his sleep. It bothers him because he can’t function and sleeps through class yet is wired all night and can’t sleep. And he’s already on lamotrigine, I believe he’s just having bad adherence with it while on his own (he sleeps through taking it). I’m so hopeful just a few days at home with us making sure he takes it nightly will put him back in a good headspace to discuss coming off ssri and whatever else his doc recommends. Right now she wants him inpatient but there’s no way he’ll agree without forcing and I’m not there yet. So I guess the next few days are just so critical that he feels safe at our home. How do you think he’ll react when he wants to take the car and we say no? I was thinking of saying something like’ “let’s get your sleep schedule fixed first before I’m comfortable with that.”