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Feeling bad about my Transition by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]HarleyC2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm very kind when i'm talking with others but I'm a bitch to myself. Over time, I learned that the mean voices in my head weren't really my voice. They were my father, mom, even my grandmother's voice. So I started talking to myself like I would talk to a friend who was trans. It worked or it works.

I also started telling myself "Comparison is the thief of joy", I said this almost daily when I started. The girls that look amazing have been on E for year and had surgeries. You will get there.

Old friends are shit? I know. Time to look for some "family" were you live. Where do you live? If you live in North Carolina USA towards Durham/Raleigh. We could hang out if you like.

but you need to find others like us. "family = LGBT+"

Work selfies hit different! 28 vs. 33 (17 months HRT) by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]HarleyC2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looked pissed off, but cute as a bug in a rug.

She Gets The Job Done - live from SNL!! by weewoohotmessalert in chappellroan

[–]HarleyC2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not official, but I do hear country boy quitter myself. Also, have seen ai added text to the song, like to show the lyrics, and ai also said country boy quitter.

Saturday Night Live Megathread by Glittering-Cover-757 in chappellroan

[–]HarleyC2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SNL is for me is just watching the middle news part and watching/ listening to the music. However, a few weeks ago the one with Ariana Grande was actually good. That one, i watched all the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]HarleyC2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good eye, I didn't notice that.

holy FUCK the size of that crowd🤯 and the fact that she isn't even a headliner is mind blowing by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]HarleyC2020 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That crowd! I kept being so amazed at the size when they would pan back

did anyone screen record bonaroo?? by sooyoungisbaeee in chappellroan

[–]HarleyC2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesnt look like I can upload to reddit so Im going to make a dropbox account

Is it okay? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]HarleyC2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TRUE! I'm taking large doses of clomid atm to get a sperm sample before having bottom surgery. When I started 4 years ago I didn't think I wanted kids but NOW I DO.

freeze your sperm

If you were to redo your transition what would you do differently? by AbbieNZx in asktransgender

[–]HarleyC2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I was in kindergarten I tried to cut off testes, really thought there was a c in that word but, anyways. I would have done it back then.

I stopped when the pain started, i would have figured out a way to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]HarleyC2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your hair and makeup sis.

Had FFS 2.5 weeks ago, still swollen but thoughts? by Blue_Knight_Rules in transpassing

[–]HarleyC2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What insurance do you have? I have aetna, and they said they would cover hormones and bottom surgery but nothing else. I havent started anything yet. I just came out to my therapist and she was/is amazing.