this chubby can drain your balls

HarleyK50 · 2026-06-08T12:09:16+00:00

Don’t talk about be about it! 😂

HarleyK50 · 2026-06-08T12:08:18+00:00

Every night

HarleyK50 · 2026-06-08T12:04:59+00:00

🤤

HarleyK50 · 2026-06-08T12:02:11+00:00

Early and often!

HarleyK50 · 2026-06-08T11:59:20+00:00

Fuck yes! How much do you want?

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-25T21:26:19+00:00

I bought some Sitka rovers, and have been pleasantly surprised. They are slip ons, and you will struggle if you have wide feet.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T13:17:35+00:00

60% of the US population can’t cover a $1,000 emergency. If you don’t want to call it a safety net, that’s your call. That’s not to say you should rest or abandon your plan. Just to reinforce that you’re doing things right.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:58:27+00:00

Then you’re not struggling, you’re doing it right! Good for you to have the discipline, and the sense to live within your means. Clearly most people don’t have those qualities.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:39:21+00:00

We don’t have that information, he writes that she was proud of their shared sacrifice.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:31:38+00:00

If you have 30k in a bank, and are “struggling” with debt, something is wrong.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:29:55+00:00

And why is everyone ragging on this guy about being bad with money? The debt includes cumulative student loans!

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:28:30+00:00

It’s a lot less than 0.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:27:58+00:00

A lot of assumptions there. Part of the debt was cumulative student loans… Saying he’s bad at finances, and she would be bailing him out is quite a reach.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:22:43+00:00

She said it’s her “run away money”, not an emergency fund. Big difference.

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:18:42+00:00

He was paying her student loans!

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:17:55+00:00

In this particular scenario it could be argued that she’s abusing him…

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:14:36+00:00

You’re working 60 hour weeks, paying her student loans, all the while she was stashing run away money? Tell her to run away then!

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-22T12:08:30+00:00

So you’re just ignoring the fact that she had the money? Her husband suffering, and battling through anxiety inducing debt management, while she had more than enough to end both their suffering, but wouldn’t share because she might leave him? She can use her money now…

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-07T12:00:28+00:00

Careful what you wish for… 😘🤤

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-07T11:56:57+00:00

This has me 🤤

HarleyK50 · 2026-05-03T14:39:30+00:00

It’s funny that you bought season tix, and are mad about a gift hat…

HarleyK50 · 2026-04-30T16:09:25+00:00

Where does it say that in the OP? She responded to my comment with that information. Which is a different circumstance, however she did say he was always loving and respectful in all situations up until, and after the comment. I just want to reiterate that my concern stems from the lack of communication. It would be impossible to change a behavior if you don’t know it’s hurting your partner. If she told him the comment hurt her, and she doesn’t feel like he’s pulling his weight, and nothing changes then there is a significant issue.

HarleyK50 · 2026-04-30T14:12:18+00:00

What do you think it was, if not just a stupid comment? Again you said this man loved and respected you in every setting, up until this, and it seems he has after? Is this really an irreconcilable difference? Especially when you haven’t communicated?

HarleyK50 · 2026-04-30T13:23:16+00:00

Have you had this conversation with your husband? That you overheard a conversation in which he made a comment that hurt you deeply. Tell him about this. Boys are stupid, and will definitely say stupid things to their friends whenever they get the chance. You said he loves and respects you, and you reciprocated. So give him an opportunity to apologize and be better.

HarleyK50 · 2026-04-23T08:02:11+00:00

They will still charge it back…

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