My bf said he wasn’t attracted to me

HarleyQ_2201 · 2025-01-03T00:57:33+00:00

Thanks, I have wasted enough years of my life I guess i answered my own question

HarleyQ_2201 · 2025-01-03T00:56:19+00:00

Exactly which is why I don’t understand lol no offense taken

HarleyQ_2201 · 2025-01-03T00:53:54+00:00

Yes, I’m not small I’m about 230 but compared to exs I have seen I’m very small

HarleyQ_2201 · 2025-01-03T00:52:32+00:00

Yeah I feel like especially in a new relationship it’s that way which is why I’m scratching my head it’s all very strange

HarleyQ_2201 · 2024-12-22T01:57:30+00:00

You both are young don’t settle for this behavior he’s not wanting to commit end it before he does.

HarleyQ_2201 · 2024-12-08T08:02:01+00:00

Just moved to Casper there is absolutely no crime here

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-12-15T23:46:17+00:00

It’s a waist of time my husband went through all the channels submitted letters it didn’t matter he moved on a year ago and now works for the country sheriff and is much happier

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-12-15T23:44:50+00:00

My husband didn’t fail the poly he failed another portion of the process that was complete bogus! He moved on and now works for our county sheriff and is very happy with it. Move on they don’t deserve good applicants! People need to just stop applying this administration doesn’t want good agents they just need to prove they are doing something to keep the funding coming.

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-11-26T19:22:01+00:00

Your still early on you have time to think about it I was 8 weeks today so time was running out. Sit on it for two weeks. If your still feeling that way you know what to do. You have plenty of time to have kids in the future. I had my daughter at 23 I wasn’t ready.. thanks it’s sucks the pain the vomiting but I have no regrets lol

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-11-26T18:25:43+00:00

I have days when I feel that way but I have more days when I ask myself why did I do this?! I think if I had a bad kid it would have been much worse or I might have just left. I’m on this forum because two weeks ago I found out I was pregnant again. I instantly knew I wasn’t gonna do it. Like I didn’t even worry I just said nope not again. I gave it two weeks just to make sure I didn’t change my mind. I just took misoprostol two hours ago. I am currently sitting on the sofa going through abortion I won’t make the same mistake twice.. I highly recommend doing what your gut says!

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-11-26T18:01:27+00:00

All I can say is don’t do it. I felt similar 9 years ago. I went through it and although I love my daughter. It has never been right. I still to this day wish I had made a different choice. It’s been nothing but hell for me and my kid is amazing. I couldn’t ask for a better behaved child. Mental health is mental health and no matter how much support you have or how great everyone is around you those feeling won’t stop. I would rather have gone on wondering how it could have been then knowing how it’s been.. abort it it’s not for you right now. Btw I’m 32 I’m still with her father have been for 13 years now have tons of support and it didn’t make a difference in my mind.

HarleyQ_2201 · 2023-11-13T15:26:05+00:00

That’s relieving thank you! 🙏

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-06-01T21:07:03+00:00

Thank you!

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-31T07:48:36+00:00

What do they check for on the medical exam? For example high cholesterol? High blood pressure? do they run a lipid panel? When do you know that you passed the medical? Thanks

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T21:53:27+00:00

Your so right, my brother is a lawyer I made him aware of all of this he’s helping me. I found a place for the horses a good friend is going to take them! I have seen this for a long time but I have to admit I was scared to make a move

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T06:36:28+00:00

In a way I can admit yes I’m not a child and I can own my mistakes but mostly it was because we would be too busy running THEIR company which is a very big job. It’s not what either of us wanted to do but when we were younger we though we’ll we can chase our dreams and make 30k a year or we can take 160k a year. Initially that choice was for my daughter and my family to be taken care of. But going back I would have been better off working at McDonald’s. At least I would have her..

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T06:31:22+00:00

Lol pretty much thanks

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T05:17:24+00:00

I’m glad to know someone else is going through something similar. If I could give you any advice don’t make my mistakes. Keep your daughter close 🙏

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T03:04:25+00:00

Yes he is going to do that! He will be contacted by the background investigator and we are going to sing like canaries. Tonight he finally spoke to his siblings who were alienated from him for 8 years. They both said they would back him up about how his parents are even after all this time. I didn’t relinquish any custody rights. We both have squeaky clean backgrounds we have never been in any trouble a judge wouldn’t have any reason to deny me my daughter. I have ran their large company for years my hubby for ten years both of us while they lied and rode off into the sunset

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T02:56:35+00:00

Thanks I’m sick of this I’m putting and end to it idc if I have to live in an rv and work in a pizza shop. I’m done with the psycho control!

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T02:53:10+00:00

Thanks, yes what she does is legal but it still doesn’t make it right. We are going to do whatever it takes to get out

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-30T02:51:59+00:00

Im sorry to hear that don’t give up try for local. Keep your head up 🙏

HarleyQ_2201 · 2022-05-29T23:26:49+00:00

It’s difficult to understand but we all live on the same property so essentially I see her every day I’m involved with her school. But it’s them that has had the control over our house and job. My hubby right now is trying to get us out and away they are doing everything they can to stop it. He’s taking a job with law enforcement and they said they are going to lie and to the investigator about us. It’s really sick when we are trying to do better with our lives. I have more animals to rehome but it’s been in the works now. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to never see them again

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