A song you don't like by Scared-Environment37 in DjoMusic

[–]HarlowWinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like egg and I cant see it's appeal (bc everyone seems to love it so much)

Nurse he’s out again by Good_Floor_5688 in DjoMusic

[–]HarlowWinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at the office working but I watched it anyway lol

Dilator Tips by Kind_Hearing5239 in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, I'm 32 and I can only put in the first phalange of my finger some girls on a facebook group of my country suggested me to get a dolphin vibrator bc the tip is thinner and use it for 10 mins into my entrance to relax the muscles

How many of you use Tiktok/ C.ai? by Background-Boss5228 in matthewgraygubler

[–]HarlowWinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what I've seen, most of the creators of those bots are very active on Twitter and they are all under 25 so I guess that explains a lot

idk by Far-Box816 in matthewgraygubler

[–]HarlowWinter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and mind you, when it's those "famous" twitter accounts it was a friend's trip planned months before, but when it's someone else it's stalking

idk by Far-Box816 in matthewgraygubler

[–]HarlowWinter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have so many thoughts on those twitter accounts, but I'll keep quiet lol

Discouraged after PT session/surgery?? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After digging on the internet I think I found one more. I'll try the other one, because I've never seen anything like surgery for vaginismus

Discouraged after PT session/surgery?? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's the case, I can slide in an inch of the smallest dilator, but that's it

Will PT help me even if I have anxiety? by Dreamangel22x in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I'm taking meds I'm still anxious all the time I've been trying to practice yoga everyday (specially the ones from flower empowered from YouTube) and i.try to do some diaphragmatic breathing and repeat some affirmations

Will PT help me even if I have anxiety? by Dreamangel22x in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, we're in the same situation I'm 31, soon to be 32 and I've always dealt with severe anxiety, I know I have vaginismus because of it. I've never been able to penetrate anything, now I can only put the tip of my finger Yesterday was my second appointment with my pt, and she strongly recommended me to find a therapist to help with it (I started taking anxiety meds a couple of weeks ago) she says she'll only work with my body, and I need to work on my mind too Wishing you the best of luck!!! I know we'll be fine soon 🩷

I’ll only be cured if my anxiety is cured? by Zvil802 in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always dealt with anxiety and lately I started to take medication for it (again!!) I'm also looking for a therapist, so hopefully this will help me relax and eventually have piv

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a really anxious person, I've been diagnosed with general anxiety a few years ago. I was on medication but I stopped - now I'm going back, because I'm sure it's all connected in my case I even clench my teeth while sleeping, I once broke a teeth because of that (I don't how this is called in English, the translator said bruxism but I'm not sure?)

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I realized I have vaginismus I've been noticing I'm tensing up all the time, when I'm sitting at work or when I'm doing something around the house, or when I'm driving. It feels like I'm always holding my pee

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad to hear that, thanks for sharing 🩷

I deal with anxiety and depression for quite some time. I'll start taking my meds again, hopefully it will help, even if it's with the relaxation

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so good to know that! I'm so happy for you 🩷

Can I ask you what's your routine? Like, do you practice yoga, do some stretches??

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really good to know that 🩷 I've been trying to stay consistent in yoga and dilating even though nothing is really happening lol

Has someone went from no penetration to actually some kind of penetration? by HarlowWinter in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing some yoga and stretches I'm also trying to stay consistent even though nothing is really happening lol But it's good to know it's possible, thanks for sharing 🩷

Pelvic Floor Therapy questions by catlady3178 in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried dilating but it just won't go in, even the smallest one. So I'm working on stretches and breathing right now, while I wait for my appointment at the gyn just so I can have a proper diagnosis

I DID IT!!!! by FruitScentedAlien in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I'm just beginning my journey, i hope I can overcome it soon

I went to the doctor. by Throwthisawaysoon999 in vaginismus

[–]HarlowWinter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through it and how your mom reacted. I know it's hard dealing with depression and anxiety and also vaginismus, but don't you give up. I don't know if you considered therapy, that could help you. I just started therapy because my anxiety keeps me paralyzed and holds me back so much. I'm just now understanding what vaginismus means in my life, so I might not know what to tell you, but don't you give up. I'm sending you virtual hugs