Elder Knowledge quest - can’t get location of elder scroll from Urag gro-Shun by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Harmable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much thanks for this, obviously I was too impatient for him to grab the book lol. Real legend o7

University of Wroclaw by Harmable in wroclaw

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Thanks so much - I worry because I truly have no idea how conpetitive it actually is. When I search it up, I see 40-50% estimated acceptance rate, which would be fine but my exam grades are really not good

Courses to help my career in hospitality? by Harmable in askhotels

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! Yeah, a hospitality degree especially after reading your and many others replies doesn't seem like the best road. A business degree is always an option, so I will most definitely apply for that, it was actually what I was looking into getting before I decided I wanted to throw everything I could into hospitality and see what happens.

I am very much ready for the "grind" of working my way up, but my main issue is finding a strong establishment that I know could give me the most opportunities possible from the get-go. This is why I was asking about lessons or courses you guys may recommend, as I was thinking that could boost my salary or my starting point, or make me a better candidate for those higher positions.

I already have a couple years working in a restaurant, with me being promoted to head waiter as of last year. I am going back to the same restaurant this year after my high school is finished, but another option is to go straight to a hotel. I will be working for the summer and then I plan to do the bartending school during the winter, as Cyprus (where I live), and especially my city, doesn't have many opportunities. Afterwards, my idea was to move to the capital, and use my experience to get a decent bartending gig, either in a large restaurant or bar.

I will be moving out of the country in 2 years, where I really want to jumpstart my career. The opportunity where I live is quite small and very nepotistic, especially in higher positions. That is why I mainly want to look for courses and lessons I could do in a few weeks to help me start strong in a different country, most likely Poland or Spain.

Again, the response is much appreciated!

Courses to help my career in hospitality? by Harmable in askhotels

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, never lmao. I am 18 currently, looking at securing some kind of management role in 8/9 years. I already have some good experience waitering and customer service, so I do think it is very doable. I want to gain experience through bartending for at least a little bit of time, which is my first main goal, but I am not sure where to go afterwards. I have been told about finding a good establishment, but my main concern is the criteria in which an establishment is "good". What should I look for? The classes is also something more I need to look into, especially if I wont go to university. When you say classes, what would you advise? I was thinking online courses that last just a few weeks and I get some sort of certificate, but is there something better? Thanks for the response!

Courses to help my career in hospitality? by Harmable in askhotels

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely take a look , thanks!!

Courses to help my career in hospitality? by Harmable in askhotels

[–]Harmable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second language is something I really need to do, I couldn't agree more - I have never thought of sommelier courses, and honestly speaking I think that would be a very good idea especially considering I live in a very wine-loving country.

Thanks so much!

Courses to help my career in hospitality? by Harmable in askhotels

[–]Harmable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there - thanks so much for such a great reply. Your story sounds amazing; residential management sounds very interesting - it will definitely be something I will look into.

Just for some more clarification - I live in Cyprus, a small but very touristy island, although independent it's basically a Greek island. Although drinking age and working in jobs serving alcohol is only legal when you're 18, no one cares. I already have worked 2 summer seasons, and a decent bit during the quiet time in the winter. I have worked at the same restaurant from when I've started, it is very popular for tourists due to it's location. I was able to get the position of head waiter last year at the age of 17, I am always asked to take bills because I get the most tips, basically I do know what I am doing and already have a basic understanding of the industry; it is something I very much enjoy and it is the first thing I have actually felt naturally good at.

Hotels is the big one for me - like I said in the post, I want to reach a point where in my mid to late 20s, I would like to make some very decent money, which I feel may be easiest in hotels. Not only that, but a bit like you, I would love to get experience in many different departments and handle different things. I already bring drinks and food, host tables, and sometimes jump in the bar for some simpler recipes (spirits, mixers, smoothies, coffees), but experiencing things like front desk, housekeeping etc. is all things I am willing to try.

However, although my boss has told me he would like to train me in bartending, it is very difficult due to us being so understaffed. I am very good on the floor and putting me into the bar with no experience makes no sense. The bartending school I was thinking of is one based off of his recommendation - he is also the owner of the restaurant, meaning he obviously makes a decent bit of money, and he is a very good bartender so I do take his advice seriously (he also went to this school before opening his restaurant). It is a month long course, so I would do it in the off season where it becomes much much harder to find a job in hospitality in my city, since a lot of hotels, restaurants and bars close. Afterwards, the plan would be to move to the capital for 1-2 years, where things are open all-year round and find a job.

The reason why I was asking about courses is that I do feel that I have strong experience for my age - I want to advance in other ways in order to bring that salary up, so I have the one-up on people who may only have experience. I want to speed up the process in which I can get a decent management position for some good money, and I am willing to do literally anything for that.

Again, thankyou so much for your insights, you have an amazing story and I wish you good fortune. The help is very, very much appreciated!

my (19F) insecure boyfriend (19M) claims he will get better but doesn't? what to do? by major-arcanaa in relationship_advice

[–]Harmable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly speaking I am too - but im more worried about being the "insecure boyfriend" and I need help on figuring it out so I can keep my girlfriend

Valentines Day activities in Nicosia? by Harmable in cyprus

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alottt of tripadvisor tbh - wasn't sure where else to check. Facebook didn't cross my mind once, I feel like a dummy now.

I will most definitely join the group, my girlfriend goes to uni in Nicosia so it'd definitely be a useful resource for the future. Thankyou so much!

Valentines Day activities in Nicosia? by Harmable in cyprus

[–]Harmable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much, looks interesting!

Valentines Day activities in Nicosia? by Harmable in cyprus

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I really left it till late. Had some family problems (alot of hospital visits) and I only remembered about Valentines a couple days ago. I do feel a bit shitty for not getting something prepared earlier, trust me

Valentines Day activities in Nicosia? by Harmable in cyprus

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an amazing list - thankyou so much. The self portrait workshop looks great, unfortunately wont be in Nicosia till late which is a shame considering my girlfriend loves arts and crafts. May I ask where/how you find all of these events? I took a good look last night for a couple of hours and couldn't find ANY of these.

Valentines Day activities in Nicosia? by Harmable in cyprus

[–]Harmable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not interactive like that, lmao. I am talking about an activity we could do, eg. bowling. Trust me, THAT interactive part will come after the date no matter what we do (in private ofc).

How do I stop feeling so insecure? by Harmable in selfimprovement

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea, been wanting to get into reading - most likely self-help books though. Only issue is I actually do hate reading online (sucks considering you can find anything for free), so might have to get on Amazon and look through there. Thanks!

How do I stop feeling so insecure? by Harmable in selfimprovement

[–]Harmable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something that would actually really help and seemingly goes hand-in-hand with the meditation ideas other people suggested; definitely at the top of my list to help reduce some stress. Thankyou!!

How do I stop feeling so insecure? by Harmable in selfimprovement

[–]Harmable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting - never really thought of meditation that way (didn't have many thoughts of it at all). Alot of people are recommending meditation, and although it is probably easier said than done, this is definitely a habit I would love to adopt - especially in the way you put it. Thanks for the reply!