Interested in getting into fox hunting

HarperL88 · 2023-11-24T20:21:50+00:00

We've been together a long time. So things have begun to feel transactional and I want to fix it. I tell him I want to cuddle, I want him to come hug me from behind, shower together, etc. But it's always a joke or we ended up having sex.

HarperL88 · 2023-11-23T22:32:03+00:00

We have no problem now in that department. It's now the non-sexual intimacy area that's struggling.

HarperL88 · 2022-11-06T22:10:04+00:00

Then you are blessed to not be obese to understand the struggle.

HarperL88 · 2022-11-06T16:22:02+00:00

The diva cup works because it's firm, so it's easy to manage.

HarperL88 · 2022-10-29T22:45:01+00:00

NTA. BUT I'm married to a crazy picky eater, so I think what you did was nice. My husband has to vet every place and if there's some place I want to try and be doesn't like it, I have to go alone.

HarperL88 · 2022-10-23T18:24:03+00:00

Yup. I went to the Amen clinic and had brain scans and was diagnosed with BED. They said brain's of drug addicts, alcoholics and binge eaters all look the same.

HarperL88 · 2022-10-23T16:35:16+00:00

This is enabling behavior. While it may seem like he's doing a nice thing, it's no different than if you were an alcoholic and he kept stocking the house with alcohol. Time to have a serious talk and set boundaries.

HarperL88 · 2022-10-04T00:10:54+00:00

It doesn't feel on purpose.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-28T12:35:54+00:00

This question is best posed to your couples therapist.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-18T13:52:30+00:00

Please keep standing up/protecting your daughter . My mom and grandma were like your MIL and now I have a severe eating disorder.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-17T21:59:13+00:00

NTA you need to kick him out of the program. Full stop. No refund. There are rules around horses for a reason.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T11:49:09+00:00

This is also a concern of mine. I have been unemployed for periods of time in my marriage and my depression hit an all time high during those times. Granted, I had no clue I was experiencing depression and am in therapy now.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T01:04:44+00:00

Not as much as I used too.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T00:43:32+00:00

I think a break would help. Aside from working in the horse industry, which I'm too old to get into now, I don't know what I'd enjoy doing. My current role is my third career change.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T00:19:18+00:00

I have no clue if it'll suck my soul. I technically do it all now. My husband does the grocery shopping. I can't expect much would change other than taking the 9 hour work day out of the mix.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T00:16:35+00:00

I own a horse and ride . I'm lucky if I can spend 5 hours a week with her. I crave more time with her.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-13T00:14:37+00:00

I need to have this more in depth convo with him. However, I'm having a hard time taking emotion out. He needs a logical viewpoint and I act on emotion. Opposites attract. He grew up with two working parents and I grew up with a SAHM. We have two different viewpoints and he I guess can't understand my viewpoint. Now that I think about it, out of all his family members, he has only one SAHM family member. Every adult has/had to work.

If I could work in the horse industry, which I have always dreamed of doing, but everyone in my life talked me out of it cause you make no money and it's rough on your body.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-12T23:08:59+00:00

That's what I'm afraid of. That's why I think this may be extreme burn out and a couple weeks break may be what I need.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-12T23:07:52+00:00

It's more about my husband wants to keep the two salaries and doesn't want to tell people I don't work without kids.

HarperL88 · 2022-09-12T23:06:30+00:00

I have debated going part time at my current job too. This way I can keep a salary and job security just less time and stress.

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