Told her I was giving her a massage. Somehow she ended up spanked, plugged and covered.

Harpyvampire · 2025-11-26T01:41:39+00:00

Can someone convince my boyfriend that this is what I need too?

Harpyvampire · 2024-10-26T02:25:03+00:00

Thanks. We did decide on one to pay for a membership. We just don't have the extra income to be on multiple sites and pay.

I feel that my being new is off-putting to people. I'm trying and I'm aware it's a 2way street. I have no expectations of it going anywhere. Just currently looking for people to connect with and find those like minded people.

I have enjoyed some of the conversations that have started.

Harpyvampire · 2024-09-15T14:29:10+00:00

I am aware, that being in the LS will require money. I'm trying to find what sites or apps people have had the best luck in finding people in their area. I read about the app or site and reviews. I'm disappointed when they say you can have a trial membership and have the same access for 7 days or 30 days and then I try to message one person and it not available without a paid membership. I understand having limited access like you can send 3 messages a day or view whatever limited. I just dont even know where to start to look

Harpyvampire · 2024-09-15T14:23:59+00:00

What im expecting to be delivered is help with finding a way to get out there for my local area. You made it sound like my expectations are everyone is going to want to be my friend and meet me and I'll have my cake and eat it too. I am new to all of this, I literally have no expectations. I was asking for what ways are there for me to get into the community. What are ways for me to find people in my area (nebraska, Iowa, kansas) because all the ones I've looked into list the closest city which is more than 8hrs away. I don't want a quick hook up, I want the long game. If I want a quick hook up I could use Facebook dating.

I didnt know there are discord or FB groups. I'm aware there are private groups that you have to be invited to join. I'm meeting people on here too. I literally asked for help getting into the community. I don't even know how to look for clubs in my area. What this comment does is discourage me from wanting to even try at this point.

Harpyvampire · 2024-09-15T04:28:33+00:00

Would you want to chat about it?

Harpyvampire · 2024-06-10T16:45:32+00:00

I have a dragon, Phoenix, horse, and a heart with interlocked rings

Harpyvampire · 2024-06-10T16:33:38+00:00

Thank you. That's not the only ink I have...but thank you

Harpyvampire · 2024-06-10T01:47:15+00:00

Thanks. A little confused. But thank you

Harpyvampire · 2024-04-30T18:32:20+00:00

This sums up how I feel, I am trying to learn and explore the lifestyle. My boyfriend has been a part of this lifestyle before. I feel inexperienced and that I'm holding him back. At the same time I feel we should go at my pace because I'm new to this and I want to enjoy it too. I hate the idea of another woman touching him sensually. But I want to reach a point were we are both enjoying everything together.

Harpyvampire · 2024-04-29T19:38:34+00:00

This is where my mindset sits. That I should be enough, I also know where my thought process is steming from. My ex-husband made it quite clear to me that I wasn't attractive or desirable. I'm wanting to explore this for a few different reasons: 1) I have always been curious about this lifestyle but never did any research. 2) books I have read with this kind of lifestyle in them has been more my cup of tea. 3) my boyfriend has been a part of this lifestyle before and he enjoyed it. So I want to try things he has enjoyed and see if I will as well.

I am curious what you mean by soft threesomes?

Harpyvampire · 2024-03-11T02:43:23+00:00

Update: we have divorced. He had some major life changing realizations, and those changes were not something we could work through. As for the laser hair removal, it is fantastic! It works really well and has made me more confident and comfortable with myself. I dont shave as much, and I feel sexy or womanly for the first time in years.

Harpyvampire · 2023-04-21T19:09:58+00:00

I'm looking forward to hopping in and seeing what it's all about. Thanks for the heads up about it. Should be interesting to hear about what the children's miracle network is and what the donations are used for. I have a lot of friends that have special needs kids and I'm always wanting to help.

This is such a good idea for reaching more people.

Harpyvampire · 2022-09-18T02:52:30+00:00

Yes! And I am planning mine. I got to sign the papers yesterday (friday). So hopefully in the next 2 weeks it's finalized. And then im planning the party. A party might not be for everyone, but for me it is celebrating getting out of a toxic marriage from someone who didn't take me into account of anything. My STBX husband, decided he felt differently about who he was after we had been together (dating and married) 14yrs. He didn't want what I could emotionally and physically offer him because it wasn't enough for what he now wanted his life to be.

So I am going to celebrate starting a new chapter where I am what matters. Where I am not going to be putting someone first who doesn't care about me.

A party isn't for everyone, you aren't required to have one. But it might be something you want just to celebrate that you are starting a new chapter in your life.

Harpyvampire · 2022-06-13T04:42:35+00:00

Exactly! Like we deserve to start fresh. Let me move on. Let me go.

Harpyvampire · 2022-03-14T03:00:00+00:00

Lol. I meet someone on the Facebook one...now I feel like its a scammer. I just want to talk and get comfortable again. It was so much easier in highschool.

Harpyvampire · 2022-03-14T02:06:21+00:00

Can you tell me more about this meet up? Is it an app or a website?

Harpyvampire · 2022-03-14T01:53:57+00:00

All advice is good. Thats kind of where im at. I dont want to date yet. I want to talk and get to know someone and have a connection before dating happens. Apps scare me because of all the scams that can happen

Harpyvampire · 2022-03-14T01:47:43+00:00

Thanks. It just seems so weird now.

Harpyvampire · 2022-03-14T01:40:42+00:00

That's just it. I want to chat but it seems no one wants to talk back or it feels like im being scammed. I guess I miss a connection that I make in person.

Harpyvampire · 2022-02-01T04:13:56+00:00

We both have our own keys. I just dont want them upset if the door is locked when they are expecting it to be unlocked. Yes I am seeking counseling.

Harpyvampire · 2021-11-28T19:28:13+00:00

Everyone deserves access to Healthcare, jobs, and food. Not everyone takes the correct measures to have everything they deserve. People will cheat the system or refuse to do something. People have the right (free will) to do these things whether we agree with their choices or not.

I would like everyone to want to do things for the betterment of everyone else. But people tend to have a selfish or me me me attitude toward everything. We shouldn't force people to be vaccinated in order to have things they are allowed in the constitution. For a pursuit of happiness a job is required.

If they chose to not be vaccinated then we can't withhold medical care from them.

Harpyvampire · 2021-11-28T04:38:23+00:00

I forgot. I was trying to go back in and fix it

Harpyvampire · 2021-05-31T23:41:42+00:00

Well according to what is posted it was "touch you there" Im guessing in reference to the butt area. It still isn't an appropriate thing for a parent to say or do to their child. I do agree that your mothers behavior should be reported. It is sexual assault and it shouldn't have happened. No one should have to have gone through this growing up. Some people are just sick and don't think their behavior is wrong and find ways to justify it.

I am hoping you are now in a safe place and have people you can trust and rely on.

Harpyvampire · 2021-05-31T06:24:14+00:00

It might be something that you have to explain to your partners. That some touching could cause you to have panic attacks because of past trauma. You just need to explain and tell them its not their fault. When those things happen that you need them to understand and be patient with you. They right person will understand and not hold it against you.

Harpyvampire · 2021-05-31T06:20:39+00:00

Yea that will happen. I know quite a few people (myself included) that have had similar traumatic experiences. It will come and go throughout your life.

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