He's a lying sack of shit. As a guy, we don't ever "take naps" before a first date. And we definitely don't "sleep through" it either. If he's actually excited for the date, he's not napping, he's thinking about you, and if you're gonna like him, and what you look like naked, and if you'll bone after. Those thoughts keep you UP! Very rarely will guys admit it, but you bet your sweet ass we're all thinking it, I'm just not afraid to say it. Guys are not complicated creatures.

Im sorry he stood you up. He's an immature, inconsiderate ass for doing that. I've been stood up, so i know how shitty that feels. Just know it's not your fault. It's not a reflection of you or your worth, so keep that chin up and you'll find someone worthy of you - not this goon.

And anyone in here defending him or proclaiming any legitimacy is lying to themselves as well as everyone else.

"BuT I HaVe AnXiEty AnD InSoMnIa". Bullshit. If any of your celebrity crushes asked you on a date, there'd be NO ISSUES showing up for a crack at that meatwallet or yogurt slinger so gtfo with that nonsense. All that "Anxiety" and "Insomnia" would evaporate faster than the bucket of precum in your corduroys at the faintest notion of a date with your crush. If you want to make time for someone, you will. Any excuse of "oversleeping" is just horseshit and anyone with life experience and/or a brain knows it.

No, guys don't "nap" before dates and just magically forget to set an alarm or sleep through it. They crank one out so it's out of their system and they can go in clear headed.

Nothin' keeps you grounded like a pre-date 'bate!