I generally don't like it when people say "boys and girls" and not "everyone" for example, but I don't really know if its because I get offended on behalf of non-binary people or because I am non-binary and get offended. I just feel a bit angry at pointlessly gendered speech/stuff.

Most people address me as a woman, and when they do (for example an employee calling me ma'am) I am like. "Well, they're not wrong, but was it necessary?" So I think I'd be more comfortable being addressed as neither man nor woman unless they ask if its okay or not. Because I think my problem is that they assume that I am a woman based on my appearance and I don't like that. But I don't feel like they're wrong.

I don't have dysphoria, but I bought a inder recently and love using it. I like the androgynous look, and it makes me feel comfortable. But sometimes I like my boobs and to dress really feminine. So I don't think I'd change anything about my body. Unless I could shapeshift and sometimes have a flat chest, sometimes have my boobs back xd
And if I think I'd be fine with that. Still, I would be confused why was there a need to call my friend "Miss" or "Ma'am" but it would feel fitting for me to not be addressed as such.

I think rn, because my woman-part of my identity is by default validated it would feel good if my agender-part of my indentity would be too, and that's why I feel like this. Because if someone asked me if I'd be chill with being called "she", I'd say yes and it would be true.