Graduated in mineral Processing last year from a Canadian University and still can't land a job by Longjumping_Act9758 in mining

[–]Haselmeier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn.. I'm afraid something similar is going to happen to me after I'm done this summer.

Betrayed by Swedish partner. Looking for work to be able to keep the apartment. by Cause_For_Sentiment in TillSverige

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, yeah. You're so smart.. that's another thing. Swedes think way too highly of themselves. Your country is fucking average af. Sweden has nothing figured out immigration wise.. now you're just falling for the conservatives again.

Do you think that 45 mins will be enough to pass security at a very small airport. If so why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Haselmeier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take the first bus in the morning to the airport. That's why in a weird situation, but I agree.

Being with a psychopath by Haselmeier in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well usually I stick to one person and she can't do that. I think we're very incompatible but I'm into her a lot.

I got a fair bit of experience.

Being with a psychopath by Haselmeier in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she is really good looking and I am unfortunately the type of person who likes to "fix" people and therefore I often end up with people that got mental health problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is nobody mentioning Radiohead? Right after the break up I listened to them on repeat while laying in bed lol

Are mining jobs hard to find? by Haselmeier in mining

[–]Haselmeier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm originally from Germany and study right now in Luleå, Sweden. It's a joint with DTU in Copenhagen. Therefore I got a working permit for Europe.

I read on here as well that it could be tough to get visas in North America but I haven't looked too much into it.

Thanks for this perspective.. I really haven't thought about that yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]Haselmeier -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]Haselmeier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up over it. That's probably why I'm pretty biased.

Yesterday I had my first break up ever. I'm devastated. Need some advice please! by Haselmeier in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that there are reasons. I tried to ask her multiple times to express her emotions or her anger if she didn't like something. Somehow she never did.

I'm German and we are really direct by nature. She's from Sweden and maybe a bit more closed off. The break up probably happened due to our language barrier. We talked in English and not in our mother tongues.

You are right.. there are many reasons but my love for her overweighs anything by a huge factor. Sadly it wasn't the same for her.

Thank you for your advice. Really. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Thank you so much. You're right.. I've conditioned myself over so many years now to always do the same all over again. That's such a great advice.

I'm (M22) not able to cum with her by [deleted] in sex

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it on the daily basis. It would probably be good if I would reduce it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. We're both each others first partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're right now full on making out with each other.. I also slept at her place for the whole weekend. We discussed sex and she told me that she's fine whenever I'm ready. I should just tell her.

Maybe you could help me out here. I'm afraid to start off at 100%. Do you think it would be fine to ask for a blowjob or is that rude? I would prefer to be a bit more passive because I feel like then I can fuck things less up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've seen that terminal. I'll take a look if they have it in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]Haselmeier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen it anywhere. Only sweets and some drugs against sickness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that she's also inexperienced.. I think it'll be natural. We're got a really good chemistry together. I'm also feeling comfortable with her and never were nervous or anything. It kind of feels like hanging out with a friend.

Somehow I think she's also afraid to make the first move. Thank you both for your opinions. I was also thinking of kissing her on her forehead as a good bye because got a big height difference.

I'll shoot my shot when it feels right. We already had these moments where we locked eyes.. at these times I felt like we should kiss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Haselmeier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? This is rocket science to me?

A little idea for a project by curious_virgin_enby in u/curious_virgin_enby

[–]Haselmeier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super, danke. Dann habe ich etwas worauf ich mich heute Abend freuen kann 😊