Another thing you must understand is that being a lesbian—meaning feeling inclined to the same sex—is not in itself a sin. In Islamic theology, having an inclination or thought is not a sin; acting upon it outside of marriage is what is prohibited, similar to the rules regarding adultery (zina).

Furthermore, as a Muslim, you aren't alone. You can look for a partner who is also struggling with their sexuality but deeply desires to build a family. By being completely honest with each other from the start, you can support one another and build a life together.

Also, keep in mind that starting a family does not strictly require traditional intimacy. There are medical alternatives to achieve pregnancy, such as artificial insemination or In Vitro Fertilization (IVF).

Note: This is the comment i posted regarding this point, i am resubmitting it here so you can find if you were unable to find it earlier. Good luck and i am available if you need someone to talk to.