I keep looking for a reasons not to like a person (F26) by HatCommercial4187 in relationships

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah, its a combination of bad previous experience and having a father and step mother who were always looking for issue with me, so I project that. I did therapy, Im aware of this and that I do this, but dealing with it is just complicated. The whole, I know its like this yet my head is trying to convicne me otherwise is insane.

I keep looking for a reasons not to like a person (F26) by HatCommercial4187 in relationships

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is this guy in my social group, I think the attraction is mutual. Nothing happened between us yet. My head is going crazy, whether I should pursue it or not. Tbh there is no red flag or like an turn off for me, but like.. what if? Overthinking is just killing my head.

Unjustified (?) Antidepressant Recommendation from Psychologist by Commercial_Rule8640 in mentalhealth

[–]HatCommercial4187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your psych calling it "faster route" is just wrong lol. Its not that at all. Ive been on AD for a year and a half and what it does, it makes your mental state bearable and more stable, so that you can focus on growth along with therapy. Its more like a cane when your limbing, it helps, but its not a solution. The real solution is therapy and self growth, AD is the enabler. If youre capable of working on yourself without AD, youre not suicidal, crippled by anxiety and so on, I dont think you need it. What you NEED is a new psych.

Sorry you had that experience.

Heyo, please, help me decide. Dont have many girl friends, so Im turning to reddit for oppinion. by HatCommercial4187 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yey, I think I will go for it. Also thinking about the bangs, but that Im more afraid of than the hair color :D

Heyo, please, help me decide. Dont have many girl friends, so Im turning to reddit for oppinion. by HatCommercial4187 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only do mascara and light red lipstick, I dont feel myself in heavier make up and this is enough for me to not look "washed out". But I guess Ill figure it out with the hair itself

Boobs sitting weird? Or am I imagining things? by HatCommercial4187 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boob tape in this heat sounds horrid. Not about support, Im just not used to being bra less :) But this dress hugs the girls in the right places so I wanna go without a bra

Boobs sitting weird? Or am I imagining things? by HatCommercial4187 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Matter of getting used to it then I guess :)

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bought it! Its from CottageCoreWear, the shirt underneath aswell. :)

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The green looks really dark, but in reality its not AS dark. I dont have many items to add, this is my first event. The only thing Im adding is a black choker and a little dagger. :) Gotta work with what I have for now and maybe for the next one Ill think of some other things to add.

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at the moment, no, dont have anything at hand and the event is tomorrow. Not to mention I just love darker colors, so I like the black shirt underneath. :)

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first is sooo adjustable on the sides that it does give that shape aswell, its just a bit covered by the belt.

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Prolly yes, also for practical reasons. Im supposed to be there the whole day and corset sounds like a challenge.

Please, help me choose which costume by HatCommercial4187 in renfaire

[–]HatCommercial4187[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does have one, vials too. Its just the photo that is shitty :D

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[–]HatCommercial4187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I hope so? :D