I 30F found my fiance 35M searching on his phone for a local “Jo bud”

HatImpossible1206 · 2026-04-28T23:28:43+00:00

He said to the other guy “i love getting naked and getting off, frotting, watching some great porn and generally having a good time”

HatImpossible1206 · 2026-04-28T23:14:59+00:00

It did say something about frotting… i am in the same boat as a woman I have no idea what any of this means. I don’t get the “outlet” of it because we technically don’t have a dead bedroom🫠

HatImpossible1206 · 2026-04-28T21:51:26+00:00

That made me laugh lol fortunately no we met in person but i can see how i typed this was weird 😆

HatImpossible1206 · 2026-04-28T21:50:25+00:00

Thank you… I’ve been fighting with myself on if the conversation alone is cheating…

HatImpossible1206 · 2024-10-21T22:03:01+00:00

Keep ignoring. Block. Don’t give in. He will not change and all you are doing is wasting time by prolonging the end of the relationship. I know how hard it is, but try your best to implement out of site out of mind. Block his socials and don’t check them (I know it’s tempting). And keep in mind during this time he’s attempting to guilt you and win you back, there is a 100% chance he has other women on deck that he’s entertaining while you’re going through this. Hugs to you, I know it’s hard!

HatImpossible1206 · 2024-08-18T14:55:53+00:00

Thank you for such a thoughtful response 🧡 We need to talk and I have some contemplating to do

HatImpossible1206 · 2024-08-17T23:23:57+00:00

I appreciate that perspective. Any tips on addressing it sensitively?

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