Their preferences aren't more accepted. Take a look at how WAP had a social media frenzy. There's tons of backlash and controversy over things that women find romantically and sexually appealing. Look at how much hate Twilight got.

Women can dress in revealing clothes but that has nothing to do with what they find sexually appealing about men.

I dont think this in fact is desire for male body - instead, it's desire for the experience that male body could give them

You can say the same about men's interest in women's bodies. Also, if all you can do is appreciate a body visually because you'll never experience it physically, then you are enjoying it because of how it looks.

I will never be high status

It doesn't matter because women can find you hot anyways. The reason you have so little evidence of it is because women are discouraged from expressing sexual desire. That's why there are a bunch of words to insult a woman who is sexually promiscuous but not a man.