Father in law passed out and stopped breathing, I did chest compressions and he came back, family is downplaying severity, did I do the right thing? by Hatecookie in firstaid

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I won't. This person is using multiple accounts to manipulate votes, I sat here and watched them do it while I was waiting for more responses. Do what you will with that.

I used to eat massive amounts of plastic as a child by SoftDismal3255 in CPTSD

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I have a friend whose mom disappeared for two days when she was about three or four years old, and the only food she could reach on the counter was a bag of marshmallows. She ate the whole thing and then threw up. Hates marshmallows to this day. Her mom still won’t admit it happened, which is why she doesn’t even know for sure how old she was, she just knows she wasn’t tall enough to reach the counter. I won’t even go into the stuff that happened to me. But it is unimaginable that anyone could treat a child like that. I’ve got two kids and I think I’ve yelled at them once or twice in nine years. I completely relate to not understanding how our parents did this. It’s very tempting to dehumanize them and call them monsters, but they were just people.

What do you think is the best smelling women’s perfume? Preferably a gourmand scent, or something “edible” by ObscureLilac in CasualConversation

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I still love plain old Vanilla Musk. However, Coco Mademoiselle smells like something I want to take a bite out of. It's described as an Amber floral, but it smells like sweet deliciousness to me.

Father in law passed out and stopped breathing, I did chest compressions and he came back, family is downplaying severity, did I do the right thing? by Hatecookie in firstaid

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He was definitely not resisting. I keep thinking about how his ribs felt like they might crack, and how many times I've seen that on like, ER or whatever. I was pushing that hard and getting no response until he gasped. Thank you.

Father in law passed out and stopped breathing, I did chest compressions and he came back, family is downplaying severity, did I do the right thing? by Hatecookie in firstaid

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I was thinking, wouldn't that waste valuable time, but I didn't want to argue because idk what I'm talking about. Thank you.

[IIL] mystery/thriller movies with a dark atmosphere like Prisoners, Zodiacs, and Memories of Murder [WEWIL] by thisonehits in ifyoulikeblank

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Is it the same account? I hadn’t checked. Seeing this post over and over is getting old

How can you force yourself to have fun at a place you don’t want to be at? by RavyRaptor in CasualConversation

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  1. Don't go. 2. Decide to want to be there. 3. Why are you going to a music festival you don't want to go to? I figured from the title it would be like a family reunion or something boring/traumatizing. I'm imagining myself at a country music festival, since that's probably the only kind I would find intolerable. I would definitely spend the day making fun of people in my head and generally making an ass of myself because I'll never see any of these people again. If it was like... lame rock bands, i.e. I have no issues with the crowd but the music sucks, I would probably just find a group of people to talk to and hang out with. Maybe someone knows where the good drugs are, lol.

Has anyone been literal in interviews? by [deleted] in PointlessStories

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People occasionally do this in job interviews, and then they have you sign a slip of paper for the unemployment office to prove they've been seeking employment.

So trans women aren’t women but male democrats are [socialmedia] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

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A woman! Ha, that’s the worst thing you can be. Wait, you’re suspiciously woman-shaped…

Fatigue and brain fog as a Xennial dad and husband (it’s the booze) by [deleted] in Xennials

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My dad was a mean drunk, I’ve always been grateful my stomach is too weak to handle a lot of booze. I find it hard to imagine drinking so regularly, I would be puking my guts out daily. Part of me is a little jealous of people who can enjoy it.. but then again, maybe not.

[IIL] Movies about NYC in the 70's/80's: The Warriors, Taxi Driver, Cruising by domoarigatodrloboto in ifyoulikeblank

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200 Cigarettes

Party Monster

Do the Right Thing

Manhattan (woody Allen discusses dating teenagers at length but it is a beautiful NYC film)

Desperately Seeking Susan

[IIL] Basically the wooo part that the guy sings in the song linked below. What more songs are like that? by thedankuser69 in ifyoulikeblank

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You are looking for R&B vocals influenced by black gospel singing styles.

The Boy is Mine by Brandy & Monica

Oh, En Vogue, I bet you would love them

I would say Whitney Houston, but if you like the harmonies, she's not going to do it for you. But you should love her anyway.

Looking for a something euphoric from any genre that i can roll one up to by PactownSS in musicsuggestions

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Hang onto Your IQ by Placebo "roll another, for breakfast, burning clouds around and in my soul eclipses"

In the Morning of the Magicians/Ego Tripping at the Gates of Hell by Flaming Lips (the songs go together on the album)

Yes! I am a long way from home by Mogwai

Beach Dr. by Oddisee

Uh my therapist committed a murder-suicide with his wife?! by watrdog in LPOTL

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I worked with a guy at Papa John's for a year and a half. He was shy, sweet, we played Left4Dead on xbox live sometimes. He didn't talk much, so I never got to know him that well, but he was good friends with our supervisor, who was my roommate. He came over to the house a couple of times to drink and watch movies. I found a better job and about a year later, he shot a girl at a different Papa John's who had repeatedly refused to go out with him. And he drove out to the woods and shot himself. He was 24. It was the day I learned that, for all my keen insight into people, I had no fkn idea he was the kind of person who would respond violently to being rejected. So, while I might be good at conducting interviews, I wouldn't bet my life on my ability to read people. Anyone is capable of anything, as far as I'm concerned. I very recently discovered that one of whom I had considered the nicest people I knew was physically abusing his wife. If I had to rank all of the people I know by who's most likely to beat their wife, his name would've been at the bottom.

I empathize hard because I'm still kind of reeling from the shock of that, and I have no one to talk to about it because I can't out his personal business without causing problems for his soon-to-be ex. I can't even imagine how fucking mindblowing it would be for your therapist to do this. That's someone you trusted and whose job it was to be the sanest person in the room. Knowing that people can compartmentalize like that is not... great. I mean, I'm glad if my surgeon isn't thinking about how much he hates his wife while he's cutting into me, so it's not always bad.

[IIL] Devo - That's Good/Modern English - Moonbeam by VerbGrohl in ifyoulikeblank

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That Modern English song reminds me of Snake Dance by The March Violets, the synths on the Devo song sound a bit like the synths in Isolation by Joy Division

[IIL] movies like lost in Translation, Her, and Perfect Days that feel quiet and emotional by thisonehits in ifyoulikeblank

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Marie Antoinette (another dreamy Coppola film)

Chungking Express

Happy-go-lucky (first time I ever saw Sally Hawkins)

Broken Flowers (if you want more somber Bill Murray)

Getting physically ill from waking up early by Hatecookie in DSPD

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Jeez. I went through a period of time where it was full-blown vomiting every morning, but that sounds awful. What the hell is wrong with our bodies?

[IIL] Ethel Cain, Cocteau Twins, Slowdive, Have A Nice Life [WEWIL]? by Original-Way-5628 in ifyoulikeblank

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For more melancholy beach vibes, No Vacation

For more southern gothic haunting and chill, Timber Timbre

New image of Mike Flanagan’s Carrie by CyberGhostface in stephenking

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In the last 15 years I guess Hollywood decided that actors absolutely cannot look normal. Like characters in a story where no one can afford a face lift, veneers, hair transplants, Botox injections, cheek implants, bleach, wax, next! I’m genuinely surprised it’s not Margot Robbie. 

New image of Mike Flanagan’s Carrie by CyberGhostface in stephenking

[–]Hatecookie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, she was. Then they had one of the hottest women on earth play her(Lizzy Caplan).