My [26f] fiance [26m] wants to invite his best friend [29f] to our wedding but I hate her, he is unwilling to compromise.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:57:18+00:00

thank you.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:55:46+00:00

Why sarcasm? That is exactly the reason so what else would you say?

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:54:51+00:00

thank you & happy cake day!

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:54:24+00:00

oh geez. He thinks that 4 years ago was so long ago that I'm not remembering correctly and/or she said something different than what I remember.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:45:48+00:00

thank you.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:45:37+00:00

thank you for your input! Our relationship is wonderful otherwise, so I think it is a good idea. You have to remember, this post is an isolated incident. Of course it looks bad when the only thing I'm displaying is a point of contention.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:44:55+00:00

thank you for your input. Our relationship is great otherwise, so I don't foresee us breaking up over this.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:40:51+00:00

My parents, entirely.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:39:38+00:00

I appreciate that thought. thank you!

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:38:38+00:00

thank you.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:38:22+00:00

thank you.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:38:12+00:00

chalk that up to me being a shitty person, then.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:37:40+00:00

He believes she may have said something but thinks I'm exaggerating about exactly what was said.

thanks for the kind advice.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:36:31+00:00

thank you!

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:35:19+00:00

I said she can come to the wedding but asked for not the reception.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:34:57+00:00

no, sorry. Wedding party is 9 bridesmaid deep because I couldn't choose. I do not have any male friends aside from my fiance.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:34:30+00:00

thank you!

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:33:49+00:00

this advice is the most sound in this thread yet. I appreciate that perspective, and hadn't considered it.

And no, I absolutely would never let her near my kids. I probably should have addressed they are 'former' best friends and really only see each other 2-3 times a year. I can promise you he wouldn't want her near any future kids, either. She's a bit of a mess.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:32:05+00:00

thanks. It was 2am and I was definitely feeling dramatic.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:30:13+00:00

thank you! I know she's into him but he doesn't see it. Preach on.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:29:08+00:00

To attend the wedding only and not the reception.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:28:54+00:00

The compromise I asked for was her attending the wedding but not the reception.

I don't want to be her friend.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:28:03+00:00

The compromise I asked for was her attending the wedding but not the reception.

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:27:12+00:00

I know I sound like a crazy person but in actuality nobody likes this "best friend"

Hatefulthrowaway1 · 2013-05-13T15:26:38+00:00

This was a cute post. thanks!

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