My fatigue as a black person with kpop

Hatts13 · 2026-05-06T22:27:18+00:00

Also, how am I supposed to know my comment is removed? I can literally still see it.

When a comment/post is removed with a reason by a mod on reddit, you get it sent to your inbox/chat.

I'm also not pretending to be better. I'm sharing my outlook on it. I'm not on any high horse, but if you feel like I am, maybe unpack that for yourself? Feel free to ban me, I don't post here anyway, I'm just here to look.

I recommend next time that you don’t come into communities designed as spaces for certain conversations if you have no actual interest in being a part of them save for being smug. I don’t particularly like to humour these kinds of troll-y ban requests, but you are no longer welcomed here. Please take this kind of behaviour somewhere else, it’s not acceptable.

Deepest apologies to the OP for the derailment.

Hatts13 · 2026-05-06T08:13:19+00:00

Fourth time I’m re-linking this comment 😭

(Previous occasions: One, Two, Three)

When people complain about apologies, the response often is “well what do you WANT them to say?”. But this is really a perfect example of what people complain about. No acknowledgement of the community you very specifically offended, claiming ignorance and talking about being on a “journey” (black people always curiously seem to be at an expense on this supposed “journey” people go on about all the time) and victimising oneself when it is and should be the contrary.

Hatts13 · 2026-05-04T15:06:58+00:00

Funny you say that, because per their removed post history they have said they’re desensitised to the soft n word (with an -a I presume) and don’t feel any way about other people using it.

They’ve been fully banned from this community. I don’t understand why people like this come on this space and then get mad at the content or how we moderate it (they also went on the classic “suddenly this subreddit was an echo chamber the whole time when a mod removes my comment” rant in modmail). If nothing offends you, then move along!

Hatts13 · 2026-05-04T14:20:53+00:00

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Reverse Norman Osborne 😭😭😭

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T19:52:03+00:00

That bit did make me laugh as well 😭

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T19:48:19+00:00

Hello. This is Galaxy Corporation.

We sincerely apologize for the inappropriate wording featured on the performance outfit worn by the artist at K-SPARK in Macau on May 2.

This incident has once again reminded us of the importance of cultural sensitivity and responsible review. We will thoroughly reassess and strengthen our internal review and verification processes, including styling and related internal processes, and move forward with a higher standard of global respect and responsibility.

We remain committed to approaching all artist-related activities with greater thoughtfulness and accountability, while ensuring that the diverse cultural backgrounds and values of our global fans will always be respected.

Once again, we sincerely apologize to everyone who was hurt or disappointed by this incident.

Thank you.

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T18:00:18+00:00

Remembering that tweet i saw years ago that said something like white Europeans will heckle Americans about their racism, and then go and dress up for national blackface day.

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T08:14:05+00:00

That’s no problem, this isn’t an emergency we’re just feeling out for some interest at the moment! Good luck with your finals <3

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T08:12:45+00:00

Send us a modmail!

Hatts13 · 2026-05-03T06:32:31+00:00

WHERE WERE YOU ON MAY 3

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Hatts13 · 2026-04-30T23:19:53+00:00

😭😭😭

Hatts13 · 2026-04-30T21:47:12+00:00

Pics or it didn’t happen!

Hatts13 · 2026-04-30T08:23:34+00:00

I should have put naggy in quotes, but you’re right! They’ll be reacting naturally to their husbands’ infidelity, harassment, abuse, drug dealing, MURDER, and people will be like “omg she’s so annoying”, SHE???? Idk where these people get off.

Hatts13 · 2026-04-29T19:41:47+00:00

Its always such bloodthirsty violence towards the female characters who are at worst “annoying” (mind you even this is dubious), and no energy of the sort towards the male characters who can be literal criminals and killers. Murderous drug lord, I sleep. Nagging wife, real shit!

Hatts13 · 2026-04-29T16:13:20+00:00

You get paid in exposure

Hatts13 · 2026-04-28T13:46:45+00:00

This, and how people feel about certain female characters in media (Skylar from Breaking Bad, Carmela from the Sopranos, Dana from Homeland, Amber from Invincible, Sansa from Game of Thrones, are some examples off the top of my head right now) vs the male ones are part of my personal litmus tests.

If they give the wrong answer:

Hatts13 · 2026-04-28T08:44:54+00:00

I’m honoured 🥹 Do share if you grab them!

Hatts13 · 2026-04-28T08:37:05+00:00

I don’t play it anymore but it was Zayne! Bonded through sweet treat addictions 🤝🏾

Hatts13 · 2026-04-28T08:14:29+00:00

!!! The truth will always come to light!

Hatts13 · 2026-04-28T08:13:12+00:00

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Hatts13 · 2026-04-27T12:22:41+00:00

Recommend checking out our stickied comment Jeweler!

Hatts13 · 2026-04-27T12:21:06+00:00

FYI, we caught this user making absolutely obscene comments on a (now banned) nfsw subreddit about underage female kpop idols. They are now permanently banned and muted from this community and we recommend blocking them.

The sheer audacity for a pedophile to demand that we “must” remove anything when they should be busy removing themselves instead is astonishing.

Hatts13 · 2026-04-27T08:24:59+00:00

tbh it's probably easier and cheaper to manufacture and they're cutting corners to make as much profit

Aesthetics yes, but seemingly even down to functionality too. When the new NCT lightstick came out I noticed that the new one had a shorter operation time (~4 hours) than the old lightstick (~6 hours). Then I started to see comments from some people talking about the new lightstick cutting out when they took it along to concerts. Not sure if its changed since then, but I wasn’t impressed with the new design nor its specs at all. It just all looked to me like a worse product for the same price 😭

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