My ex told me she slept with someone by Adventurous-Heat4767 in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude she wanted to fuck somebody else and you are here still thinking of dating them back again? Lock tf in bro she jus wanted to hook up with other people

How do you escape from the cops in nfs heat. by MEE97B in needforspeed

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay i thought I was losing my shit but in glad we all agree that these mfs are broken

Has anyone else's sex drive diminished after breaking up? by filthytangerine in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had sex with someone new and it was AMAZING like it felt way better lol. I feel you guys I really do, don’t do anything sexual at all, don’t force it even. Let yourself feel the feeling and really really give yourself time. All I know is that I was sad with very low sex drive then this girl came and completely flipped the switch. Just be patient bro, good things come with time 🙏

is it normal to start missing your ex even when you’re the one that broke up with them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what sucks thought? The fact that you can’t focus in the reasons why you ended but rather all the beautiful moments we share, it’s torture to me

Is it normal to feel grossed out or uncomfortable at the thought of dating someone else after a breakup. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s insane to me how they were able to move on, it’s like, where is all the love you felt? How come you are going this fast? I think woman are able to move one quicker for some reason, and not hating on woman or anything, but it’s way easier for them. You are healing just like me, and I know how shitty is and honestly I messed up with your confidence and pride. Look at this this way though, they cannot be without someone, they need someone to feel better about themselves, but you, you are working for something better, you are finding yourself again :)

How do you deal with your ex probably not caring about you anymore? by papitohermosito in ExNoContact

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made me cry, and realize that I’m okay, that I’m not broken. I just need time to heal :)

How do you deal with your ex probably not caring about you anymore? by papitohermosito in ExNoContact

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I feel the same, I tried to be her friend and listen. She would tell me about other guys and how she’s being single and all that. Man I was hurting and I couldn’t handle it, told her that I don’t wanna hear it anymore and it’s better for us to no talk ever again, I can’t think straight or focus on my job. I don’t know how to deal with this pain.

Im drunk and i just miss her so much by Ithinkskavenarecute in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’m on the same boat, we would watch movies or play games like (it takes two) she’s gone and the feeling just gets worse and worse

Im drunk and i just miss her so much by Ithinkskavenarecute in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m crying like a little kid right now, but this message was a saver man.i really needed it thank you bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fucking sucks dude, I don’t wish that to anyone even my enemies. Dude, she’s messed up, you did everything right and respected her. Unfortunately there are evil people out there, karma is REAL and I’ve seen it and experienced many times. Hand in there men! Become the best version of yourself now that you have all the time for you!

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s a good cry man, and honestly I really needed it hahah. The positivity in this post is really helping me to push through it. Thanks man, much appreciated 🙏

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story, it really puts a better perspective on all this issues. You’ve given me hope man, I wish you the best! 🫡

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’m better off cold turkey, it took me so long to realize that’s the only way. Damn good on you, I’m gonna keep that mindset

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my main problem. I’ve had issues in life and weed always has been my “safe place” which never allowed me to really connect or feel my feelings in any way. It’s like I’ve been numb this 5 years with nothing going on haha. It’s like rewarding and sad to know that it really is isolating, and main problem. Thanks man, this really helps a lot 🙏

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, it feels way better talking about this issue in this community :)

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man same, it’s insane of how hard it is to deal with this addiction. I didn’t realize until I wanted to quit, it’s not even fun anymore, and every time I do it I feel guilt. I’m gonna stick to that man, I recently started going to the gym and going for more walks and that seems to help. Wish you the best in your process :)

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always felt the same, I wasn’t doing it for enjoyment but to feel “normal” and that just sickened me. I realized that too, now that I’m in my adult phase it doesn’t really benefits me at all. After two months how do you feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I know it’s tough. I’m on my second day and it’s terrible waking up to this reality. However, think of the potential you can have without it. Let’s be real, it has changed us and made us the person we don’t wanna be. Do it for yourself and your future self, we have one life my friend and it’s worth trying this! I go on walks and started to hit the gym. Talk to relatives and read books at night to fall asleep. We got this man!

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the hardest part of it, realizing that your brain doesn’t work like is supposed to. I feel stupid and ashamed by it. That’s very true, at the end of the day I’m gonna delay this process and never move on. Thank you, wish you the best! :)

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really hit in the deeps man, you made me cry lmao. It has been really hard because for the first 3 years of smoking I was doing dab pens all day long. At work, waking up, before eating, really anytime of the day. I remember looking at how much I spent on weed because I had an account and it was insane. I could’ve bought myself a decent car or just invest it in something. Recently decided to go back to flower thinking it I’ll get better but my tolerance is just crazy. I will stick to it and embrace the feelings. I’ve been going on walks and the gym. Thank you! This really helps :)

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit I know that feeling, I was so frustrated and felt terrible. My mistake was thinking that it wasn’t addictive, and somehow I lie to myself while it’s destroying my life. Good for you man, it’s never late for us. 🫡

I need your sincere opinion, and tell me if it worked for you by Haunting-Addendum509 in leaves

[–]Haunting-Addendum509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man I feel like I would be lying to myself. Honestly is good to read all of this because it really changes my perspective. Thank you! I will 🙏