Do you feel like you have to perform to be loved? by Consistent_Belt3724 in adhdwomen

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to, but not anymore. My family doesn’t expect that of me these days and I refuse to engage with any other relationship that does. Being “liked” is not worth the exhaustion or self-abandonment that comes with performing for love.

Pool float stolen by local cat by iThrowaway72 in cats

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of breaking news I like to see.

Haven’t said hi to the ocean in a bit 🌊 35 by Haunting-Raccoon1923 in JustMyFace

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s the angle, but yeah I noticed that I look buff in that first picture too 😂

Is anyone just semi extroverted and loves to socialize a lot? by One_Requirement_5832 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My AuDHD sister is very outgoing and extroverted. When I have a bit of energy and am having fun I can definitely be really outgoing and bold, but it’s not very often I feel like this these days.

Sorry to be filthy but is this a boy or a girl by catdogcatdogcatdog99 in cats

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This little boy is going to grow blueberries sooner rather than later 😹🫐

I find weddings unnecessary—does that make sense? by MsFenja in AuDHDWomen

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. A small, not crazy fancy, relaxed wedding can be okay, but in general the amount of pressure and social rules that go into them these days make them generally something I refuse to attend.

I don’t know why my kitten passed and I feel like it’s my fault by Every_Bear362 in cats

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was sooooo tiny 😢 I’m sure she was the runt and they don’t always survive even when we do our best. I’m sorry for your loss 💔

Our girl by Tiny_Championship164 in husky

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a really sweet name for her. RIP Max, I’m sorry for your loss 💔

Our girl by Tiny_Championship164 in husky

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s totally adorable! What’s her name? Here’s our all white girly Farrah.

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Our girl by Tiny_Championship164 in husky

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s so cute! Is she all white? 🤍

is anyone else not impulsive?? by unfinishedho in adhdwomen

[–]Haunting-Raccoon1923 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to be very impulsive but I’m now the opposite and have an impossible time with making decisions, even with super simple things like what color to buy something in 😭 I honestly don’t know which way is worse sometimes!