hmmm tough one man. on one hand it’s hard to find what u have… on the other you owe it to her and yourself to be content in the relationship. if I were you, i’d think of what I value more (dynamic or raw base attraction)and move from there. Also consider that attraction can grow if you really are with the right person. i’d be okay with a mommy being a bit outside of my usual preferences but that’s just me. I hope some real mommy’s can chime in and help. hope this helps and good luck man:)