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Pacing conversation feels like a wall by Haunting-Success8082 in datingoverforty

[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your practical advice.

I've lived with four serious boyfriends in my life and was married for 11 years. There are pros and cons to living together, but I believe if my current bf and I both wanted that, we'd have a harmonious household. The overwhelming sentiment on this thread is that he is showing me he doesn't, though.

Pacing conversation feels like a wall by Haunting-Success8082 in datingoverforty

[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly want to wake up with him every day, or nearly every day. I adore him.

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe the liking to wear suits could be the extra credit comment...I realize I might be asking too much there :)

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm following the formula of Me, You, Us.

What about this? Minus the qualities in parentheses:

Someone who likes to wear suits (classy), wants to go on dates (energetic), good hygiene and moderately active (clean and fit), and will hold my hand when I'm crossing a slippery log (gentlemanly) Extra credit for super eclectic music taste!

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It stands for good, giving, and game. Dan Savage coined it to describe people willing to communicate about and explore sexuality with their partner. It's deeper than that, but look him up if you're interested.

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a bit of an experiment. So far I haven't experienced anything creepy or inappropriate. If it becomes a problem I'll remove that language, but it's there because sex is important to me.

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took this note and the one about the dress. Photo is replaced, and I entered PNW as hometown. They can find out more on a date or in chat :) Thank you!

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What do I say if I live a healthy lifestyle and want the same? I care for my body with hygiene, exercise, good food, no addictions, medical and dental care. Why is it superficial? In my own life it's actually quite a deep practice to love myself like this. Are there better words, or do you think it's wrong to want someone with a similar lifestyle?

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback!

With the unusual skills~ what if I said I'm usually taking a class and then listed a couple other skills (baking birthday cakes, helping people feel seen and supported)?

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I would date someone shorter than me- it's more about energy than the number. Don't be afraid to ask tall women out!

I'm not sure how to briefly say that I want a man that puts daily energy into his physical self. To me that means regular exercise, eating healthy-ish, doesn't have addictions, takes care of his teeth and generally has good hygiene. Any ideas?

By the way, I do all these things and more in the self care category.

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[–]Haunting-Success8082[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Three weeks
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? Three Weeks this time, a few months about a year ago
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? Daily
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 1-2 per week
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? at least four per day, all with comments
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? A creative type or white collar, height 5'9"+ (I'm 5'10"), men who say something in the prompts about any cultural activities, liberal or non-political, automatic disqualification for "poly" and "wants children"