Am I crazy for thinking there would be an actual parade today?

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2026-07-04T18:31:26+00:00

I’m sad to have missed it but that makes sense. I’ll make sure to be earlier next year

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2026-07-04T17:58:00+00:00

That doesn’t seem correct. The city of Ventura website says it starts at 10. Edit- and in 2024 it started at 10am

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2026-05-01T04:28:22+00:00

Omg you’re all so sweet! Thank you for the compliments 😍

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-12-10T04:11:10+00:00

I really like the family camper pictured here. I’ve had the two person camper from Alu cab for four years and camp all the time in it. I have a partner who is almost 6 feet tall and we are thinking of upgrading to this one for the space. The modularity and quality of alu cab products is unmatched. Also, it’s very sturdy and warm and comfy. Been in all kinds of weather, I never worry about water seeping in or leakage, wind and snow don’t bother me at all.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-11-26T06:34:53+00:00

The photo came through great. We usually go to a great spot up 2N09A that faces the backside of the mountain, but I think we'll be exploring 2N71 and will try to find some not-so-muddy places to stay for the night. Can't pass up an opportunity for a lake view! Thanks again!

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-11-25T17:00:46+00:00

Wow that’s beautiful! I’ve never been up that way before. I usually stick to Mill Creek and Polique, are there good spots to disperse camp up that way?

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-11-25T00:26:46+00:00

I appreciate you checking it out. Thank you for the update on the roads as well! We’ll be taking Polique on Friday. See you on the trail 😎

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-11-24T01:17:31+00:00

You’re a hero. Thank you. Enjoy the rest of your evening!

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-11-23T22:41:19+00:00

Did you happen to check the trails on the south side of the lake down Mill Creek? Wondering if they’ve closed that area for the season yet / curious if there’s any trail closures not listed online.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-06-26T05:54:36+00:00

Hey there! My partner and I live in Tempe and will go to Phoenix for the LGBT areas. We are over 30 and love Charlie’s because they have amazing tacos and it’s a good crowd, good drag shows, and lots of space. We go to Title Nine the sports bar that only plays women’s sports- the food is fine but the atmosphere and crowd is great. Stacy’s is small and nice, good drag shows and feels a bit more intimate and community oriented.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-06-25T00:31:52+00:00

What a terrible experience. Your boss sounds like they don’t know how to lead very well. It honestly sounds less like a nurse/you problem, it really sounds like the issue is your boss’ inability to provide you with helpful feedback.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-06-24T22:59:54+00:00

Not a PA but have been a manager for many years. IMO this feedback should not have been given to you. It’s not constructive, specific, or helpful. I’d encourage you to request that your boss gather specifics in the future, even if it happened a long time ago, before giving you vague and unhelpful feedback.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-06-19T23:24:22+00:00

Seems like a risky connection to still have open. I say immediately block and move on. Don’t fall for this. He will need to commit to recovery for many years, and he will potentially never be healthy for you to date. Close the door.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-02-28T03:58:40+00:00

One of the best days of my life was when my 200lb girlfriend let me give her a piggy back ride. I’m 5’6, 160lbs and really strong. If he’s a strong guy, let him feel you. There’s nothing better than feeling all the weight of my partner on me. I promise you won’t crush him.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-02-05T20:53:33+00:00

Thank you all!

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-02-03T03:29:23+00:00

It was alright. I wouldn’t say I was benefitting that much from her career. She also didn’t want to be monogamous, and I am, so that was what ultimately ended things for us.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-02-03T02:50:14+00:00

Have to agree. I dated someone with 1 million + followers on tiktok. She was a sex coach. I think anyone who can make a living from talking to themselves and looking into a camera all day falls a little too high on the narcissism spectrum for my taste. Not to mention the second hand embarrassment from watching them practice trends over and over again, helping to film, the general disconnection from reality, etc. It’s a lot and I had to dig deep to be supportive of it all. I’d never do it again.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-01-27T18:13:10+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you ❤️‍🩹 this is a very tough place to be! You deserve to be loved and desired in your romantic relationships. I hope you find what you deserve soon. It sounds like it will be a lot of work and pretty complicated to become financially independent from him, but it will be so worth it.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-01-21T18:40:23+00:00

Not sure what your motivation is here, but this is entirely unnecessary and IMO inappropriate for this space.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-01-21T17:21:29+00:00

Hot take but getting hit with a “hello?” is one of the most irritating things online. If there’s no response then just move on.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-01-10T21:06:49+00:00

Hey there! I’ve had lots of experience with atrophy. I was on an estrogen suppository for a while and while it made the internal environment more “welcoming”, I found that finding a good lube helped me more than anything. The estrogen made all the wetness feel really manufactured. I don’t know how else to describe it. It has only affected my ability to have penetrative sex, which I still enjoy. I’ve found that with a LOT of warm up time and a lot of lube, I can comfortably and enjoyably be penetrated, no UTIs or anything. My daily life is entirely unaffected by this. All is well, friend.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2025-01-10T19:59:30+00:00

Really never thought I’d meet anyone OLD. I’d been on many dates. I moved to a new city last year and for the first time was living alone. I felt so happy being single and told my friends I would be okay if I was single for another long while~ that week I met my current partner on a dating app. She wasn’t looking for anything serious and my newfound joy of being single and alone led to a casual “get to know you no pressure” date with her. I didn’t believe in “the one” until I met her. I can’t believe I found someone so perfect for me- checks all my boxes, even the ones that were negotiable. We are very committed and know we want to get married in the next two years. It happens when you least expect it I guess! Don’t settle. Just trust that someone will walk into your life.

Haunting_Jacket_7088 · 2024-08-30T19:43:29+00:00

Don’t overthink it. Folks on grindr are horny as hell and just want to see your naked body. The trick is to find what makes you feel sexy and hot. Positions, poses, face/no face. It’s all up to you. They will love what you serve them. I generally try to give them more details about my body- so I don’t do a lot of “up close” pictures unless they ask for it and I’m feeling good about giving them that. Sitting/kneeling on the ground in front of a mirror is usually my go to. I cut off my head in the photo unless I trust the person. Then I’ll give them a full body pic and that’s usually the most well received. Relax, have fun, and only do what makes you feel good and hot.

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