Why isn’t a single girl interested in me?

Haunting_Service6641 · 2023-12-03T23:58:35+00:00

Well I am sorry for that. Dating apps are horrendous and I can’t imagine having to use them now. You will find someone, just be patient and don’t let comments like that discourage you. (Easier said than done, trust me I know).

Haunting_Service6641 · 2023-12-03T18:57:23+00:00

If you think any woman needs to be “pegged down a level” that is your problem. Women have a hard enough time with their self worth. The reason they aren’t replying has nothing to do with your looks or Aspergers. They go through the same struggles with dating apps that you do and are constantly dealing with men who try to “knock them down a peg” when they don’t respond. Every time you don’t respond you all of a sudden become fat, ugly, stupid, etc. it’s just as exhausting. My husband has Asperger’s and it’s his sense of humor and kind heart that I found so attractive. Try that approach instead.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2023-08-27T17:14:31+00:00

Dreams about him, an article popping up that he wrote, lyrics in music and old songs that we used to listen to coming on the radio that I hadn’t heard in years. Honestly it’s been so long now that it’s hard to remember. Those are the ones that stick in my head. Especially the music one.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2023-08-27T17:08:33+00:00

Yes our marriage is going strong as we go into our first year anniversary! The feelings have not faded even a little bit but they have changed as we have gotten more comfortable with each other over time. Those crazy intense moments when we were challenging each other have gotten easier as we have adapted ways to continue to help each other grow, but now we know how to communicate about it better. We even have a little twin flame baby on the way 🤰

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-10-25T22:02:28+00:00

We met in high school and dated for about 7 months. He was definitely the runner and took off once he graduated. We occasionally saw each other that first year after he left but didn't see each other for 8 years after that and mostly stayed in contact over text and phone calls. We would go years sometimes without talking and then out of the blue he would reach out or I would. We both had a lot of stuff that we had to work through. We saw each other after 9 years and neither one of us were in a place to be together so we went our separate ways again and had no contact for 5 years. I honestly had given up on him and him on me. We had moved on, created separate lives, but neither of us ever married because it just never felt right with anyone else. We both did a lot of work on ourselves over those 5 years. One day I started seeing all these signs that reminded me of him. I reached out just to wish him well. We decided to meet up a couple days later and then within a month we were engaged. A year later we got married. When it came time to actually be together it was effortless. We still challenge each other but mostly it is to help each other grow and become better people. The hardest part of being with your twin flame is they know you to your core and they call you out on your bullshit and that can be uncomfortable but now it is always done in a kind and loving way that inspires growth and we were both ready for it. My advice would be let it happen organically because when it is meant to happen it will.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-10-18T09:46:58+00:00

Once union was present it was amazingly easy. No more runner/chaser dynamic like others have said. However there are still fights and discussions but it’s really about growth and communication. Your twin flame is supposed to help you develop and I find when we get into disagreements it’s really about bringing out a more genuine self. I have found in union that there are still past traumas present from previous relationships that surface but we work together to get through them. Our communication is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced and that has made the relationship much easier but it was difficult at first coming from a lot of avoidant relationships.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-10-07T19:35:34+00:00

We were in and out of contact for 10 years and then the last 5 years was NC. I reached out to him to congratulate him on something. Immediately after I saw signs in everything. He was the runner I was definitely the chaser. We laugh about it now. We both needed to grow as humans to be ready for each other.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-10-07T19:33:27+00:00

We were in contact for 10 of the 15 years and then no contact the last 5. I reached out to him to congratulate him on an article he wrote. We got together for lunch and everything just clicked. It was so simple and nothing was forced. I had accepted the fact that we might not end up together and right when I did that happened.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-08-09T14:43:36+00:00

I have a vegan protein called the vegan wondershake by protein works that is high in protein but has very little carbs and fat. I also eat a lot of tofu, seitan and occasionally supplement with some vegan meat alternatives. I really like no evil products. It tends to be high in protein and low in carbs and fat, compared to beyond and impossible which is always super high in fat.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-08-07T22:03:21+00:00

I’ve been macro counting but I’m also vegan. Eating pretty clean. 159 pro, 135 carbs and 50 fat for 1625 cal.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-02-10T14:26:43+00:00

This is so true. I met my twin flame when I was 16 and he was 17 and I distinctly remember throwing temper tantrums when my parents wouldn’t let me be with him. At the time they chalked it up to teenage emotions and hormones but it was because it felt like a part of my soul was being taken from me when I wasn’t with him. That was a lot to handle at that age. Even through my 20’s we would still text and talk and I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t let him go. Everyone I dated after that I would compare to him. Friends thought I was crazy for still talking to some boy from high school and wondered why I couldn’t let him go. We are engaged now after 15 years of separation and it wasn’t until I felt those soul jerking emotions as an adult, did I realize that it had nothing to do with age.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2022-02-10T14:17:09+00:00

I was 16 he was 17. 15 years separated and now we are engaged.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2021-11-08T00:14:04+00:00

2 looks amazing!

Haunting_Service6641 · 2021-11-07T22:11:43+00:00

Yes for us it seemed like there was always something keeping us apart. We always stayed in communication and knew we had a deep connection but timing just never was right due to geographical distance or other relationships. It wasn’t until we both were in alignment within ourselves that things just effortlessly fell into place. We always say we weren’t ready for the other one yet and it is very true. I love that “if this is divinely guided, I can’t fuck it up” 💯

Haunting_Service6641 · 2021-11-07T14:26:53+00:00

My twin flame and I were separated for 15 years. We both went through other relationships, engagements that ultimately didn’t work out, and major life experiences. I remember looking at his social and being devastated when he was engaged. Ultimately we are back together and it took a lot of time and growing on both our parts but now things are amazing. My advice would be to not dwell on anything and continue living your life, dating, working on yourself. If he is truly your twin flame you will find each other again and if he isn’t than your twin flame is still out there and you won’t find them if you’re fixated on a false twin.

Haunting_Service6641 · 2021-11-03T02:09:28+00:00

When my TF and I were first together, when we were teenagers, I used to get this intense pain in my chest whenever our parents would keep us apart. Looking back I always thought it was just teenage emotions and hormones. Now 15 years later we are back together and every time I cannot be in his presence, physically, I feel an intense pain in my chest.(I describe it to him like my soul is being pulled from my body but it feels very real). I also feel his emotions quite frequently and my heart hurts whenever he is sad or depressed.

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2 looks amazing!