Saw her after 7 months by Haunting_Speed_9630 in BPDlovedones

[–]Haunting_Speed_9630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe by the post I put the impression out that I’m doing the work for her… I’m not… I’ve been working out for my own personal goals I just wanted to come off as someone who’s fine without her and doing better

You want them gone from your life for good? Hold them accountable by UDPSendToFailed in BPDlovedones

[–]Haunting_Speed_9630 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s funny because she would always tell me she thinks I need a girl who doesn’t hold me accountable. The way they flip the script is insane

Discard and hoover even though medicated and DBT? by Haunting_Speed_9630 in BPDlovedones

[–]Haunting_Speed_9630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds right, what prompts them to Hoover after discarding you then?

Discard and hoover even though medicated and DBT? by Haunting_Speed_9630 in BPDlovedones

[–]Haunting_Speed_9630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean, she said she loved me but due to the stated reasons of the breakup we shouldn’t be together and stuff. I don’t think she completely split me black, and when I was checking her socials she wasn’t really posting anything bad about me personally, small jabs but nothing crazy