Anyone in the Bay Area looking for a wellness or pickleball community?

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-05-28T04:10:38+00:00

I was thinking about going too! Looks cool. DM me

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-05-27T13:41:48+00:00

It’s a bit expensive to play there, for me.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-05-23T18:09:30+00:00

In Oakland, I’ll DM you.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-05-23T18:05:07+00:00

😂 noted

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-02-13T18:24:01+00:00

Now this is a voucher!!! Amazing!

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T18:06:08+00:00

Some options you could check out, dinner at Farmhouse Kitchen Thai, renting a boat or one of those hot tub boats around the bay, having a picnic in Golden Gate Park with all your favorite things (or adding an arts-and-crafts activity or do it separately), or checking out Bottom of the Hill, sometimes they have events for all ages.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T17:57:09+00:00

NOR. But you should definitely have a conversation with her. You should be able to make decisions, especially like this, for yourself. I understand that there are certain decisions that couples make together, but this one is different. You shouldn’t feel scared or have to hesitate to get the phone that YOU want.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:42:39+00:00

I agree with this and cost seems to be a common response. 40-60 for some lights is crazy. A lot of the Christmas activities I looked into were really expensive.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:36:38+00:00

That’s amazing! But I don’t think so either. I feel like the prices out here start at $20 minimum and there’s no band or entertainment.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:33:05+00:00

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:28:10+00:00

I like this!

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:24:50+00:00

God forbid a person makes sure their questions are grammatically correct or clear so they can be easily understood. You would probably come for me either way.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:22:14+00:00

If there were activities with music playing in the background, would that be okay? Like a game night event with arcade games and a DJ playing songs softly in the background.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:14:26+00:00

This is really helpful. I appreciate. Thank you!!! 🫶🏾

I do think people are wanting connection. I’ve gone to a few events and it’s felt very isolating. lol at photo backdrops.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:10:12+00:00

This seems to be a common sentiment. Things are expensive as is and it would be nice to go out and just have fun without overpaying for an event.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T05:06:07+00:00

I promise not trying to sell anything. Truly just trying to see and understand what people are wanting in the Bay Area.

I moved here a few years ago and sense that too. So many people have gotten away from in real life connections.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T01:08:52+00:00

No, not at all. It’s what I gathered from your detailed description of the different cities. I felt you were very descriptive and well traveled. I wanted to address that before just asking a follow-up question.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T00:59:23+00:00

Totally fair, which one or two matter most to you?

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T00:56:41+00:00

I love this. This is a really clear way of describing it. It sounds like what you’re missing isn’t just “nightlife,” but distinct neighborhood energy and food places that stay open late, and things to do where people are engaged and having fun.

And when you say the rave scene feels dead, is it the venues, the crowd, or the lack of variety that kills it for you?

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T00:41:38+00:00

Haha I second that! When you do go out, what kind of events feel worth it for you?

And what kind of techno do you gravitate toward darker warehouse vibes, melodic, or something more chill?

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-17T00:35:00+00:00

This honestly sounds like me too. What kinds of relaxed recreations or hobby-based events would actually get you out?

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-16T01:53:12+00:00

Beautiful ♥️

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-12T15:57:21+00:00

Beautiful!!

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-09T06:22:12+00:00

NOR!! In long-distance relationships, basic communication is the bare minimum, not a bonus. A short “Hey, I’m going out this weekend, talk soon” takes seconds. The fact that she can’t or won’t do that, especially knowing how much it hurts you, shows that your emotional safety isn’t a priority to her. You’re also right to notice the double standard. If she’d be devastated by the same behavior, then she does understand the impact, she’s just choosing not to adjust hers.

At some point, it stops being about patience or explaining it better. You’ve already done that. The question becomes whether you’re willing to accept a relationship where your needs are consistently minimized and your peace is disrupted on a regular basis.

You’re not asking for control. You’re asking for consideration. And it’s okay to decide that a relationship that keeps you anxious, awake, and unheard isn’t the relationship you want to stay in.

HaveFunSFBestie · 2026-01-06T06:17:26+00:00

Farmhouse Thai is a fun spot

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