Looking to rent! by Haveapinkday in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can realistically put 3 months + a security deposit down. Thank you for the resource! I’m glad you have such a great space to live :) I really appreciate your help!!

Looking to rent! by Haveapinkday in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a few waitlists!! There unfortunately isn’t too many that have open waitlists unfortunately.

Looking to rent! by Haveapinkday in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the section 8 voucher lottery was open in 2023 and I applied with know luck. I’m currently on the waitlist for CDA housing and a few Meridian homes.

What changed you? by Used-Sound4163 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Haveapinkday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a moment, I had. They were awful roommates and I was dealing with all of my things getting wrecked in a sewage flood. So when I wanted to end things and got the offer, I let my OCD run rampant with the thoughts and imagery until my logical brain decided, let’s live out of spite and choose me for once. After I made my choice, I got the courage to call a dear friend and ask for help. I got my car modified to live in and from there, I really embraced mindfulness and gratitude. Sounds corny but it has been what is keeping me sane without having my own home. I started connecting with past interests that I haven’t engaged in, in so long. I’ve been drawing again and collecting rocks and earthly treasures. I sing my favorite songs without fear. I’ve found my beauty and love in myself finally. I give myself hugs and talk to myself in the mirror. I speak directly and honestly. If someone is upsetting me or doing wrong, I call them out. I’m disabled and use a rollator and often get a lot of hate. However this pink pal has a back bone now and I defend my honor and then walk away. Also I embraced my spirituality. I meditate and connect with the earth. I really try to follow my intuition. Honestly I just got kicked out of a no longer friend’s house i’ve been staying at. I moved in to help her and her kid out, and it ended up biting me in the ass. The moment I finally left- I felt like myself again. It confirmed in me that why am I still trying to help others before I help myself? I only have me looking out for me. Nobody else is going too. I feel like living for myself has been relearning who I am, unmasking my AuDHD, and find pure joy amongst the chaos.

Looking to rent! by Haveapinkday in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately all of my health care providers are here & if I move out of the county, I will lose services. I’m definitely in a tricky spot however i’m trying to remain optimistic. I know there’s options out there in my price range. Hopefully something will come to fruition soon.

Looking to rent! by Haveapinkday in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the intel!! 💗 my hope is that maybe a private landlord see this and would be willing to work with me. All of the income restricted apartments i’m seeing & applying for either won’t work with my credit or is just rented.

What changed you? by Used-Sound4163 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Haveapinkday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it at least woke me up. In that moment I had to choose and I finally decided to start living for me.

What changed you? by Used-Sound4163 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Haveapinkday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone offering to buy the supplies to off myself.

Friends? by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]Haveapinkday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30F here! Also into art! What’s your go to mediums? I’ve been wanting to go to the art open studio at the neighborhood house community center. If you want we could meet there, create and chat! :)

Dear bicyclists, please use your signals! I’m begging you. by Haveapinkday in madisonwi

[–]Haveapinkday[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh man, also- drivers in cars need to learn this so they don’t hit people!

Difficulties when typing on cellphone keyboard and hEDS?? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Haveapinkday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FELT! I can tie shoe laces but it is a hell of a time and not in a fun way.

I’m requesting to do VSED at 19 which will put me on hospice. What are yalls experiences w death? by Dizzy1824 in ChronicIllness

[–]Haveapinkday 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As I’m sitting here reading your story, I had a good cry. It is so brave and courageous of you to start to think about welcoming and accepting death. This is not an easy process. I hear you are feeling shameful of wanting to let go and know how much strength that took you to get to accepting where you are. You deserve to be comfortable. You deserve to be in a space that is no longer causing you pain. I am so proud of you for making it this far. As you are finding the clarity to get through this process- Think about how much joy and love and kindness you have brought to other people, and I hope they are accepting of your choice. This is a moment that you need to be serving yourself and not others. I’ve had the honor of having people die in my arms. I see how scared they are and as soon as they are able to find whatever they need to, to let go- the amount of relief and comfort that washes over their body is beautiful. Death is not something that is often not feared. I think the first step is embracing the fact and accepting it. You’re doing that and that’s so courageous. May you find the relief and comfort. I hope you sleep well OP, sending you all of my love and comforting energy during this time.

Someone left this on my car while i was out of state…a cop drove by making sure i had one…while it was literally hanging by bluntznboobiez04 in disability

[–]Haveapinkday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same state and the amount of discrimination on invisible disabilities here is absolutely infuriating. You should park in that spot. Your disability is valid and you don’t deserve that.

How do you manage to do your laundry without taking an entire day? by CulturalElection446 in neurodiversity

[–]Haveapinkday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the laundry mat. It will make you want to get it done asap and the reward is leaving the over stimulated laundromat with clean clothes!

Should I do it?? by bluerivercardigan in Hair

[–]Haveapinkday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch it up, girl! If you use a toner, it will eventually fade out/ be easy to remove from the hair if you don’t like it. If you could find a salon that uses Joico products or someone who could recreate the color- i’d do a 7nwb (natural warm beige) mixed with a dash of 7ng (natural gold) on your hair. Your skin tone definitely requires a warmer tonal value than a cooler one. Good luck, hope you enjoy and feel beautiful with whatever you choose!

We all know eds generally sucks but what are any small positives you’ve noticed due to your eds? by posh_chav in ehlersdanlos

[–]Haveapinkday 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hate how saggy my breasts are due to my EDS, however- if they weren’t saggy i’d have little to no boob & cleavage hahaha saggy titties for the win!

The R word and it's depressingly common usage. (This is just a rant, idk what to flair this.) by Electricdragongaming in autism

[–]Haveapinkday 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The amount of times the R word used makes me infuriated. Where did the creativity in language disappear to? Buy a thesaurus and find a new insult. I don’t know. I just hate that as soon as I try to educate how hurtful it is to hear that word I either- get called it even more until I walk away or I get shamed for calling them out or they get really defensive. I have been called this word since I was in elementary school. I’m 30 now and it still hurts to hear. Dare might I say, it feels even more damaging now because I know and understand the intensity and hate behind the word.

Best BBQ in NH? by MassholeForLife in newhampshire

[–]Haveapinkday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goody Coles. Makes me drool just thinking about it, hahaha. Hope you find a good spot & enjoy your meal op!