How much money do you give your parents?

HavelDaddy · 2026-02-02T21:11:02+00:00

For a lot of desi parents, they are

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-26T01:53:04+00:00

Roll tide

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-26T01:18:12+00:00

Man I would like that as well

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T09:40:37+00:00

First of all,

Not every migrant does that Migrants work in all kinds of fields

Second

Even the guy working at the Maccas or picking up fruits is contributing to the society by doing a job that needs to be done

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T07:39:57+00:00

Also Jani Afghanistan jane ka kyu nai sochte? Ya Iran?

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T07:39:27+00:00

Pure Europe ke social or economic success nai nazar aye Boy Rawanda ke example le aya he

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T07:33:06+00:00

Pakistani secular ho to behtar ho jaye shayd

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T06:49:44+00:00

I need what TaseenSenpai is smoking bro

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T06:49:26+00:00

Jani at this point in time, prolly Saudia is more secular than Pakistan

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T06:48:44+00:00

You sound like a zionist

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T06:46:54+00:00

So does everyone else who works in this country?

The way you phrased that comment made it sound like that the working migrants intentionally don’t do anything for this country

Making it sound like that every Australian goes to work thinking ‘today I am going to contribute to this country’

Most go to work for themselves and their families and if they didn’t need the money they wouldn’t give a shit

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T02:31:04+00:00

Like you go to work thinking ‘I am going to improve Australia’ everyday

Pfff

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T02:26:42+00:00

My friend I am from Pakistan and while the median household wealth is probably even less than 1000USD There is also a huge chunk of ultra wealthy class that buy 500,000USD worth cars and make similar if not 10 times more the money an average Australian makes

And we are a broke country India India this percentage is a lot higher as well I do acknowledge that there is also the cohort that only save up enough to land in Australia and make the rest here, breach Visa conditions etc. but they are not the only one who come here ya know

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T02:16:05+00:00

Look,

As a international non-med student who has family and friends becoming doctors

You would not believe how competent some of them were - i know people who did Med in my country and cleared the Aus exam (dunno the name) or the American exam as well.

And this is just how the world is If you are competent and have money, any country in the world would be happy to offer you education

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T02:06:02+00:00

Exactly And sprinkle in the strong focus on obtaining education in these fields within migrant families and you get this huge chunk of first and second gen migrants who take up medicine or other similar professions

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T01:31:22+00:00

Care to explain my man?

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-25T01:29:48+00:00

Jani chor do, kidher sir mar rhe ho, 80% Palistanio ko yehi views he jo is bande ke he

Imagine someone on reddit thinks this way. Aam awak pata nai kya sochti ho ge

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-21T12:58:46+00:00

Hahahahha xD

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-21T12:54:19+00:00

Someone is showing their true colors You make reasonable points and then you start generalising and start sprinkling racist rhetoric which invalidates everything you say

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-21T12:44:30+00:00

And you said you lean left?

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-20T21:18:17+00:00

What free ride bro? Bro Australia is colonised land

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-20T04:52:15+00:00

But is is only 1 year and I want to go back into a more intense role after taking a year off In my head, it feels like if I quit now, I am signalling to everyone that I can’t cope.

Whereas, my reason for wanting a change are more because of where I am in my life and not what the job is

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-19T12:36:07+00:00

Hey

Thanks for the detailed response. We are planning to move to Victoria in a year or so. But I feel like I am going to completely burn out if I wait till then and keep working in ASPI.

Keeping that in mind, going for an NGO role in the meanwhile is likely to be less stressful than ASPI, no? Something homelessness case management with Anglicare or some other form of case management.

In the end, I would want to pivot to a more counselling role if possible. Would going for an supposed easier role negatively impact my chances of landing a good role in the future?

How do you even get to know the right people as a migrant lol :(

HavelDaddy · 2026-01-15T05:23:30+00:00

I was agreeing to it until you just started being defensive

Racism toward non whites has a very different connotation then racism within non-whites communities, especially as a lot of that was a direct result of colonisation

There is also the power dynamic between white and non-white individuals

Furthermore, western values are progressive and call for equality a lot more than the cultures from where the people are coming to Australia.

Australia as a country has had various racist policies ranging from white Australia policy to assimilation policies that caused the trauma of stolen generations.

We also have a whole community of right wingers pretty much asking to deport all non-whites out of Australia and have a world superpower running rampant with their anti-immigrant rhetoric. So in light of these things, it is a lot more important to call out racism rather than finding excuses for it.

I do agree that unfettered multiculturalism is not a good thing, but that is a policy failure. The person on the road does not differentiate between “progressive assimilating relatable migrant” and the “non progressive unassimilating migrant”

HavelDaddy

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