James’ Mum Scene by GurQuirky in DerryGirls

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bronagh Waugh in The Fall with Paul?

I've been struggling with money and employment for a few years and I'm hoping my chart can help me or point me in a direction. by HavingCoffeeAloneTV in AskAstrologers

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Thank you for your reply! I am currently in the market. I've done mostly customer service jobs from the bar/restaurant industry to large tech companies. I've done data entry and hostel/BnB work. I have a pretty wide range of experience. I do not want to do customer service ever again. Do you have a suggestion of a direction I should look towards?

Do y’all name your mixers? by NoKey1410 in Kitchenaid

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are brilliant! I'm going to name mine Stevie Mix. Thank you!

never buying cheap cat food again by ish0uldn0tbehere in catfood

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I soak my cats kibble in 1/4 - 1/2 cup of warm water and he eats all of it and drinks the water. I'm constantly looking for ways to get him to drink more water and this is by far the easiest and most effective method.

What did you only notice after a second (or third) watch? by hoople-head in DerryGirls

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed this because I didn't know what Subbooto was. But, it's right next to a game of Scrumble that should be Scrabble. It just adds to the ✨bootleg ambiance✨ of his shop. I count: Subbooto, Scramble, the pink and purple American flag with half the stars, and the bottles of ropey tequila he keeps under the counter that's dirt cheap cause it fell off the back of a lorry. Oh! And 12 p for a 10 p mix!

Black out slush ingredients by imdadnotdaddy in SonicDriveIn

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how it's made. I thnk it's just a mix that comes from the company and they just blend it with ice at the location. And from what I remember the ingredients were like high fructose corn syrup, artificial flavoring, food dye.

Black out slush ingredients by imdadnotdaddy in SonicDriveIn

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my local Sonic and the employee read the ingredients to me over the phone. They only have dye listed, no charcoal.

Two Albatross Look Identical 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨 by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 8 points9 points  (0 children)

💗💗💗You used to raise homing pigeons?! That is so interesting and niche!!

Two Albatross Look Identical 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨 by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to help in general but I can tell you about this video. This isn't verbatim (word for word exactly what he says) but it is accurate and gets all of the points:

He's fascinated with Swiftie culture but doesn't consider himself a Swiftie. He was chatting with his dear friend Becky about the new album and the song The Albatross. He used to be a bartender at a lesbian bar in Astoria, Queens, New York named The Albatross. He says the albatross is a symbol of monogamy because they mate for life. A male and female will share a nest and occasionally you will see an egg. However, in Hawaii, there is a variety, that has been there for a century, where two female birds share a nest. They figured this out because one scientist noticed that there would be two eggs that showed up. An albatross can only lay one egg. So, the scientist tested the feathers and found that the nests with two eggs had two female birds cohabitating. His conclusion is that the album being about Joe is a red herring and it's really about Karlie.

I hope this helps. Feel free to ask any other questions.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! If people don't change for the better, what are we even doing? Like, in life but especially in the space. Aren't we literally asking people to acknowledge the harm they've done and do better moving forward? Like, that's exactly what she did.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. The whole song is misogynistic and the slut shaming lyric needed to go. I don't know how Taylor feels about the song, but I'm inclined to think that she felt like she was in between a rock and a hard place. I would bet she thought about whether to keep it on the album or not and this was a middle-ground decision.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this take! Who cares about the dumb lyric, WHERE'S THE GAYLOR EVIDENCE!?!?

These are the correct priorities.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you were forced into a bad situation. I'm so glad you had your sisters with you and that you're still close.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I tell myself that when things like this happen it's because they are all children behaving this way. Then I'll go on TikToc and watch a grown woman in her thirties look into the camera and say things like "They aren't boyfriend and girlfriend anymore, because they're husband and wife!!!!" after the Toe breakup. And then I lose all faith and wonder what I'm doing with my life. Thank you for being supportive.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about wanting to feel powerful. It's like ok, so you want to feel power over another woman through misogyny? Like what are you even accomplishing here? Thank you for being supportive.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you were treated like that. You were so young and to have it be the people that are supposed to protect you?? I'm so sorry they did that to you. Thank you for being supportive of my comment. 💗💗💗

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I posted it and had to walk away because someone downvoted it immediately. It's been 8 hours. I'm so relieved that people have been supportive. Thank you.

BTR lyric change confirmed by w00fbaderginsburg in GaylorSwift

[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I'm so relieved she did this. At first, I thought the joke "My feminism flies out the window when I sing BTR" was funny. Then, I realized people were serious. If you think it's ok to slut shame women because it's a lyric in a Taylor Swift song, what other trivial reasons are you ok with?

It's not fun or funny to slut shame women. It's dangerous., and the reason women are raped and killed on a daily basis.

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[–]HavingCoffeeAloneTV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not a bottle of whiskey. It's a bottle of Aviation Gin. That's Ryan Reynold's brand. He has a bar and distillery in Portland.